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    sarahjaynek Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 29, 2008, 11:00 AM
    I think I like my friend am I bisexual
    Recently I have started to like my friend and she is a girl! I have only just finished liking this boy am I bisexual? :confused:
    She means the world to me I have told her but I am only 13 but I want to be her girlfriend, am I to young? Even if I were to go out with her id think shed reject me I am really scared. Even at school she is in my head I can't stop thinking about her and fantisizing about us kissing! I feel like a proper weardo! :(
    What shall I do! I know it is normal but I am not shure if I am gay or bi :confused:
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    Sep 29, 2008, 11:17 AM

    You could very well be, as it is normal these days for girls to wonder what it would be like to experiment with another female. At your age, everything is confusing...
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    Sep 29, 2008, 11:29 AM

    Meah I cannot count how many girls in HS and etc where "Bi". How many of them ended up really being Bi? Well one just turned straight lesbian and I still talk to her. Ask yourself this though, Do you feel it is worth risking her friendship over these feelings? If you can honestly say yes then do what need to do.
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    Sep 29, 2008, 01:08 PM

    Your young, curious, and confused by your feelings. I guess we all wonder, but at 13, best not act impulsively, until you know yourself better, and have a much better understanding of yourself.

    It takes some time but after the growing pains, those feelings will be much clearer to you.

    Got any big sisters?
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    Sep 29, 2008, 01:16 PM

    Girl, I'm bisexual there's nothing to be ashamed of... a lot of girls in my high skool are bisexual because well guys can be really bad head and girls are there to help you out.. trust me its perfectly natural
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    Sep 30, 2008, 10:09 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Your young, curious, and confused by your feelings. I guess we all wonder, but at 13, best not act impulsively, until you know yourself better, and have a much better understanding of yourself.

    It takes some time but after the growing pains, those feelings will be much clearer to you.

    Got any big sisters??
    no sorry I don't why
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    Sep 30, 2008, 10:28 AM

    I think Tal asked because maybe you could ask them for advice and see if maybe they expierenced the same feelings that you are going through.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 10:39 AM
    That was my intent, Rome, thanks! It often helps to have an older person to talk to.

    Having said that, until your sure about yourself, and your feelings, don't be impulsive.
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