[Stuffy]

My girlfriend was always txting back and she always got on Facebook to talk to me at the same time since she went off to college and met new people and most of them are guys all of this has just stopped. She doesn't call me anymore she doesn't answer texts or if I call and she doesn't get on Facebook anymore and she deleted her account on another site we used to talk on with out warning. I have been told by all of my friends that have gone to the same college that they are always hitting on her and trying to get her to dump me and stuff. But what has me worried the most is that they all tell me she is never seen with out one of the guys and they do a lot of stuff alone or at one or the others dorm. She tells me that the guy is just a lonely person and doesn't have many friends, but I just don't know what to think about it. I just want to know what is going on but it is hard when the person I want to talk to seems to be cutting me out of her life

[talaniman]

You should really ask her why has she done all these things that make communications so hard for between you. That's would be what I would have to know if I was you.

[Stuffy]

First off thanks for the advice. Second like I said it hard to talk to her anymore like even now she is back one winter break and she keeps making excuses not to do things with me I have to talk to her mom just to get anything done

[talaniman]

That's not so good there friend, as a female who is avoiding you ain't into you. Usually she either can't break up, or wants you to do it for her. Sorry guy, she maybe trying to get her courage up, and you have to help her by confronting her, and give her what she wants, her freedom.

Yeah I know, that's the last thing you want to hear. But get her pinned down, and get things in the open, and be prepared to do what you got to do, and let her go. Being single, and alone beats wondering what the heck is going on when you are in limbo, as you are.