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    confusedbabe28 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 24, 2010, 10:09 AM
    Should I give up?
    I started seeing this guy a few months ago, I'd say he's the most amazing person I ever met and we get along so well but here's the thing - he has a girlfriend who recently moved back to her own country. He's been telling me that he loves me, but at the same time he couldn't break up with her yet since he's the mere reason why she left(she got terminated from her job because of him and has to leave the country), so he's actually feeling guilty about it. He said that he's just waiting for the right time to do it, but I'm having so much doubts. I don't know what to do, I feel like he's just giving me false hope. Any advice on this please? Thanks.
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    Dec 24, 2010, 10:36 AM

    I would say, keep your distance until he actually breaks up with her. You don't want to be left hanging out to dry while he's playing both of you.

    Check out this guideline for insights: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ip-463250.html
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    Dec 25, 2010, 11:47 AM

    He sounds like a wast of time, because any guy who gets his girl fired, and deported, and still not let her go is up to no good with YOU!!

    Run, don't walk before he gets you fired and deported too! He feels guilty my a$$!!
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    Dec 26, 2010, 09:56 AM
    Agree with Talaniman, tread very carefully with this one, he sounds like a nasty piece of work.

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    Dec 26, 2010, 11:50 PM
    Thanks a lot for these advices. Clearly he just doesn't see me as worthy enough since he led me to believe his lies and me, as stupid and naïve as I ever, fell for his crap. He told me that he would actually do the right thing and figure a way out to end things with the girl without causing so much damage to her, and the next thing I know, he flew out of the country without my knowledge and visit the girl back in India. Well, it's all beyond repair between me and him.. but I'm glad it's over.
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    Dec 30, 2010, 05:52 PM

    Glad it all worked out. Let us know if you need more help!
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    Dec 31, 2010, 06:49 AM

    Glad you're heeding the advice you've gotten here. You are right to break it off with him.

    Just move on. There's a perfect fellow out there for you who'll be loving, and honest.
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