[Cat1864]

I am all for trying to keep a positive outlook as long as you aren't blinding yourself to reality. Be honest with yourself about what you can handle.

I sincerely hope that whether the romance happens or not that the friendship will hold up.

[I wish]

Another harshness warning

1) Rebounds do not only consist of one single person. Being on the rebound is the need to fill a void left behind by an ex. In other words, the person is just looking for another person for the sake of having someone and not because he or she really likes the new person. Like Homegirl said, she might not know that she's on the rebound, even though she says that she's not to you. Anyway, who would admit to being on the rebound?

2) Actions speak louder than words! Though she says she might be crazy about you, the point is, she doesn't want to stay committed to you. Which means that she is free to experiement with other guys, while leaving you hanging as the back up plan. Just in case it doesn't work out with other people, she can always come back to you. Do you really want to be someone's safety net?

3) Be as patient as you want, but the situation doesn't seem very fair to you. She's free to see other guys, but what about you? Are you suppose to remain faithful to her while she's out experimenting?

4) Take whatever time to need to decide to move on. I understand that it's not easy to just give up on her overnight. Furthermore, be patient for as long as you want, but realize that you might be waiting for something that may never happen. She may never come around and come back to you.

[nickmeharg88]

I think you should kkep being a good person, a good friend, then maybe shell come around.

[Synthax]

Thanks bro :)