[maxywaxy]

Hey there..
In August I moved to Finland for college in Helsinki at Sibelius Academy and soon after that I met this woman at the book store that I worked in. We started talking which lead to late night calls that lasted until 2 am Them after a month of some serious dating she moved over into my Apartment.
I honestly couldn't stop thinking about her. I'd come home from school and she'd be there with her books and her glasses and her silky hair and she'd always smile at me and ask how my day was, and then we'd walk to my work place and then over to the park where I would play violin to her until dark...
When last week she wasn't at home, I couldn't find her, I called and called, I called her parents asking if they knew where she was and then after two days I was laying on my couch and she walks in and Looks at me.
"I hate you."
Then she takes her stuff and leaves...
I didn't do any thing wrong. I did every thing that she asked while still being conservative with what little cash I had. God...
I was too ****ing crazy about her, she had taken my heart and wrung all the love out of it like a rag and now it's dry and broken...
I hate not seeing her... I hate not being with her... I ride my bike to school and sometimes wish that she would comealong in her car and hit me... All my relationships end like this. They are perfect... and then they hate me... Why? Am I just a hopeless romantic?

[ironhide262]

I've dated a few Finnish girls over the years... but, first tell me, what was your relationship like with her? Was is more romance than physical action? Did you give her enough attention( I mean physically... yes it matters)?

[simii]

Hey if everything was so perfect and things were so great between you both why suddenly she will leave and take her stuff back and say I hate something else is there in the closet may be if you mind giving little detail about your relationship with her... rest don`t think you are a hopeless romantic at times things work at times they don`t... and if you think you didn`t do anything wrong and things were great between you two give her some time don`t keep calling or bugging her (if you have done that) let things calm down and than talk to her in this... may be than you will come to know where things went wrong between you two... good luck

[talaniman]

Had a few hate me too! And they weren't Finnish either. Go figure. Better luck with the next one. There always is a next one if you want it to be.

Break ups suck, don't they!!

[maxywaxy]

Yeah, it was kind of a mixture of both, I told her that we could take it slow, and I would ask if I was crossing any lines. But thanks.