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Tanyalee · Nov 25, 2010, 05:30 AM

Basically, I'm useless with relationships always have always will, but lately I caught my boyfriend writing to another girl (I girl I hate) but I read it thinking he wouldn't do anything but I was wrong. He had said. 'me and him basically brokenup, he didn't have feelings for me, but he is scared to go on the market'. That's the main parts that really hurt me the second part was 'i have always wanted to touch your boobs they are NICE!! that he always imagined her naked body and asking for pictures then asked why him and the girl didn't hoook up'.
Then I cried for hours on end he knows I know now and he says he is sorry and that he loves me but I don't understand how someone can love someone while doing that.
I just feel he is sorry only because he got caught out and feels bad for getting caught out. Not because he loves me.
I need advice on what to do :(

talaniman · Nov 25, 2010, 09:16 AM

Why have you not communicated before to get on the same page and work together? How old are you? Why are you still with a cheater?

Devorameira · Nov 25, 2010, 02:32 PM

He's just a useless jerk. I'm sorry, but you're right... he is only sorry because he got caught, not because he cheated on you.

Regardless of how old you are or how long you've been seeing each other, I got to say that it's time to move on and find yourself someone who cares enough to not sneak behind your back.

Tanyalee · Nov 25, 2010, 03:54 PM

Cause he didn't really cheat he just spoke to this girl like he did. I'm 18 years old. He brang flowers n chocolate to say he is sorry, does that prove he is sorry? He is not a type of guy to show his feelings. And I'm lost in decissions :/ xx

talaniman · Nov 26, 2010, 08:28 AM

He is sorry he got caught before he had chance to have sex with another female! That's all that flowers, and chocolates prove. Take him back, and he will get even sneakier, and you will always wonder what he is doing when he is not with you.

Plus are flowers and chocolates enough to get you back after what you have discovered? I hope NOT! I hope you don't just cave in so easily after his bad, disgusting, cheating behavior. And yes, he was cheating behind your back. Stop making excuses for him.

88sunflower · Nov 26, 2010, 09:08 AM

Flowers and chocolate? Seriously girl he is just upset he got caught. Gifts don't say your "sorry". Gifts say "oops you caught me but I can smooth this over with pretty presents and soon you will forget" Think of it this way if he loves you why is he telling her he has no feeling for you? Is that what love is? I don't think so. He is just looking for fun on the side and keeping you on a string for his dry spells. Trust me. Your young. Leave him to his games. You will rebound quickly and find someone who respects you more then that. Someone who will give flowers for no reason other then to see your pretty smile. Not as a cover up.