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    aishamedi Posts: 9, Reputation: 2
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    Nov 15, 2010, 05:39 AM
    My relationships don't last more than 1year, What am I doing wrong?
    I am ready to settled down and I want to make sure am settling with the right guy. What do I do?
    I seem to always fall for the wrong guys.
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    Nov 15, 2010, 11:08 AM
    This is very little information. But, what r the reasons that you have been breaking up for? Are you the one that breaks up or is the guy the one who breaks up with you? Also, if you keep choosing the wrong guys it might be that you need to either higher your standards, or maybe give yourself some time to get to know them better, or maybe even both. Don't rush into relationships just because you are trying frantically to find the right guy. The right guy takes time to find, so don't go around jumping into things, be patient. You will only find him when you are not looking, just so you know. But soon enough, prince charming should come along, and you will be happy, just give yourself time to find him.

    Good Luck,

    Javi
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    Nov 16, 2010, 12:23 AM
    Create boundries for yourself before you attempt to have anything close to serious with a guy. For example, a lot of women won't have sex on the first date because they think it makes them look easy. Well, if you agree then put sex off for more then that and see if he sticks around. When you talk to him, pay attention to how he interacts with you in conversation. Does he laugh when you attempt to make a joke? Does he talk to you as much as you talk to him? How much does he open up throughout the times you have serious conversations while getting to know each other. Another big thing, don't let him in until he has attempted to let you in. Basically though, just create strict boundries and stick with them and eventually the right guy will come along. Good Luck!
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    Nov 18, 2010, 02:19 PM

    Based on your other thread, my first assumption is you're having sex with them before you even know them. That alone is a major issue.

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