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Oct 25, 2010, 04:16 AM
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What should I do when my boyfriend never wants to initiate sex?
I always have t be the one to start doing something for him to know I'm in the mood. He says he doent want to "harrass" me so that's why he's like that and that's just the way he is... I feel rejected when I take extra time to put something nice on and if he sees me in it he doesn't "jump all over me"... help!
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Oct 25, 2010, 05:43 AM
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How old are you?
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Oct 31, 2010, 08:16 PM
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This may not help but I'd stop initiating sex... see how that goes.
Let him know that always making the first move makes you feel insecure when such an intimate act always relies on your decision. You want to feel wanted too.
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Nov 11, 2010, 03:03 AM
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You might want to address his stigmas with "harassing" you. You might want to ask him why he feels that it would be a bad thing. Remind him that you like it, and want to be harassed by HIM sometimes (not other guys, of course).
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Nov 11, 2010, 03:16 AM
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hathoreros does not find this helpful : Indication of why you need to know their age might be helpful...
Please read the sticky at the top of the Adult Sexuality board. Members must be 18 to post in this category. Therefore, your disagree was inappropriate. You owe Synnen an apology.
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Nov 11, 2010, 06:27 AM
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You should ALSO not reply to threads in Adult Sexuality where we do not know the original poster's age.
YOU could be held responsible for giving sexual advice to a minor.
Would you like someone giving advice to your (hypothetical) 12 or 13 year old daughter on how to get her boyfriend to jump all over her because she's wearing something nice?
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Nov 11, 2010, 03:28 PM
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Comment on J_9's post
I don't owe anyone an apology, I indicated he should mention WHY the age matters.
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Nov 11, 2010, 03:29 PM
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Comment on Synnen's post
Nope, but merely saying "Due to the fact that I cannot answer unless you are 18, how old are you?"
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Nov 11, 2010, 03:29 PM
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Hathoreros,
Please READ this...
**Over 18's ONLY** Please read this before posting in Adult Sexuality
This is an Adult board. If your language or your profile indicates that you are a minor (Under 18), your post will be removed.
The questions and answers on this board may deal with sensitive or potentially controversial issues.
AskMeHelpDesk is committed to offering a venue where sincere answers are given to sincere questions... so sincerety will be the primary consideration in determining appropriateness.
Do not use vulgar slang. Users that use inappropriate language, are insulting or harassing, describe illegal activity or otherwise violate AskMeHelpDesk's Terms of Service will be removed.
Therefore, you owe Synnen an apology. These are the RULES of this board.
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