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    Oct 18, 2010, 04:07 PM
    Am I a virgin?
    Look... long story short is my girlfriend and I have been talking for some 15 months and she means more then the world to me. She is my definition of everything... and the word perfect insults her.
    She's amazing.
    Regardless, we started going out in February of last year, but started talking in August 09.
    In November... I made a dreadful mistake. I might have lost my virgnity but I'm not sure...

    A girl went down on me, at a party, and like... my penis went in her, for only like 2 or 3 seconds.. before my conscious overpowered my hormones and I flipped ****. That was it.

    Your virginity is special, something your supposed to give to your love. My girlfriend now is my love, and I want to give my virginity to her.
    Idk.. I know emotionally I am a virgin.. that girl at the party... she meant nothing to me. And everyday since then there's been a wretched blackness inside of me, only lightened but my amazing woman now.
    And I'm going to tell her... she wants to have sex and I want to give her whatshe wants. But I need to be honest with why I've ebeen putting it off, and that's cause I'm not sure if I'm a virgin or not.


    Am I?
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    Oct 18, 2010, 04:12 PM

    It's really hard to say. Technically if your penis enters the vagina, then you are no longer a virgin.
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    Oct 18, 2010, 04:35 PM

    How old are you?
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    Oct 18, 2010, 05:13 PM
    You're a virgin. You should still tell her though. I've been in a similar situation so I know how you feel.
    You're a virgin because you didn't have sex. You backed out of it; you realized that being with her and having sex with her over just anyone means more to you. Now that you came to that realization you should be ready for your life with her.
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    Oct 18, 2010, 05:16 PM

    Do not answer this question further until we know the OP's age.

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