[kkarenn]

Ok.. so there's this guy. Let's say his name is A. I started liking him since the beginning of 2009. My friends said that he's stuck between me and this girl. A and I are pretty close, he went to me about his family problems during the summer. He said he felt comfortable talking to me the most. Now that school started.. I feel confused again. He flirts with me & joke around.. but I was kind of tired of the whole thing. He has mood-swings, one day he would be flirting with me, and one that he would just ignore me. I got tired of it and tried to move on to this other guy. A found out that I was moving on and he started flirting with like 3 girls and just ignored me. It hurt because I knew that I wasn't over him. I cried for like days.. my friends told me to just forget about him and move on. Easier said than done. I went to the school counselor & felt a bit better. I started trying not to care about it, and he noticed. Usually if he flirts with a girl in front of me, I would like look away/look down. Well.. he went back to his flirty self. He started poking me, taking my books and wouldn't give it back, making me smile/laugh, keeps calling my name just to bother me, teasing me, playing around, high-fiving me, etc. Well.. I decided to give him another chance. The thing that I'm scared about is that.. what if he has one of those mood swings again? I just don't know. Should I wait for him? It's been a year. Should I move on? I don't know. Please help!

[answerme_tender]

You know that he has mood swings. You know that its hard to go through those mood swings. Yet here you are thinking about going back to him. Why would you put yourself through that again? I know it hurts to feel like your alone. Maybe you haven't found someone yet, but that doesn't mean you have to go back with him. If he comes around flirting with other girls, don't look away or look down--look him straight in the eyes and then roll yours. Let him know that your not intimidated nor impressed with him. The only reason he is doing it now is to be a bully to you, show you that he can get another girl. He will stop doing that once you show him it doesn't bother you. If your instincts are telling you to be worried instead of happy about getting back with him, maybe you need to step back and rethink. Good luck

[kkarenn]

I know, I was just done with it today. He's turning into a fake person. He said he was going to change his hair and style it like the Korean stars. -roll eyes- He's just not worth it & I'm done with it.