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    blu_angel21 Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 3, 2010, 05:13 AM
    Why do I get so embarrassed if I make eye contact during sex?
    Im 25 and have always had an issue with confidence when it comes to sex. I always try and avoid eye contact but when this does happen I get really embarrassed. Why is this? I want to feel more confident!
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    Oct 3, 2010, 07:02 AM

    You dislike eye contact during sex because you don't want to display your feelings, or you don't want to know the feelings of the one you are having sex with. Eyes are the mirror of the soul.

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    Oct 3, 2010, 07:09 AM

    Are you in a stable relationship? Do you trust your partner?

    Do you feel you can 'let go' during sex?

    Can you make eye contact in those moments of intimacy before the act?

    More questions then answers at the moment.
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    Oct 3, 2010, 07:19 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by redhed35 View Post
    are you in a stable relationship? do you trust your partner?

    do you feel you can 'let go' during sex?

    can you make eye contact in those moments of intimacy before the act?

    more questions then answers at the moment.
    REDHEAD35

    My relationship isn't stable I don't trust him fully
    I can make contact before the act.
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    Oct 3, 2010, 07:28 AM

    Hello b:

    When you're screwing the right guy, you'll be able to look him in the eye.

    excon
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    Oct 3, 2010, 07:43 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by blu_angel21 View Post
    REDHEAD35

    my relationship isnt stable i dont trust him fully
    I can make contact before the act.
    there you go,you answered your own question.

    when your talking to a good friend about a problem,can you look them in the eye?

    sure you can,cause you trust them.

    sex is so intimate,or at least it should be. Your sharing your body,and when your in love your heart and soul. Its an expression of how you feel.

    when your with the right guy as excon pointed out,you won't have a problem,because you will trust him and he will trust you, and that's when it gets really good!
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    Oct 3, 2010, 07:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by blu_angel21 View Post
    REDHEAD35

    my relationship isnt stable i dont trust him fully
    I can make contact before the act.
    Then why are you having sex with him? Why are you in a relationship with him?

    Not making eye contact is a way of distancing yourself from the act and the person. Embarrassment when you do make eye contact is sign that you are not comfortable with what you are doing and who you are doing it with.
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    Oct 3, 2010, 08:08 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Cat1864 View Post
    Then why are you having sex with him? Why are you in a relationship with him?

    Not making eye contact is a way of distancing yourself from the act and the person. Embarrassment when you do make eye contact is sign that you are not comfortable with what you are doing and who you are doing it with.
    To be honest I really don't know. Ive been thinking of ending it, The relationship isn't really going anywhere.
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    Oct 3, 2010, 08:17 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello b:

    When you're screwing the right guy, you'll be able to look him in the eye.

    excon

    They said I couldn't give rep to the same post twice?? So, I agree once. Yes, when its right it is absolutely full eye contact, without even thinking about it.

    Tick
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    Oct 3, 2010, 08:43 AM

    Thanks guys I really appreciate it xx
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