[luna88]

My boyfriend and I love each other he proposed and we got engaged 2 months ago, we plan to go and live back in his country and I did a mistake I told him that if we live there I don't want him to go out with his friends without me, and even I know that its normal if he goes because I do it also I just wanted to know how he will react, now few days ago he told me that it was a mistake that he proposed me, but he told me that there is not doubts about his feelings, he loves me and he knows I am the one but he is just not ready to get married, we decided not to think about it and I can see is relax. Do you think that he will propos again one day, or what do you think about the situation because I just want to do things rigth and make him happy.sorry my english is not very good

[Devorameira]

It's impossible to know what he's thinking. It could have been that your remark gave him second thoughts, but then again it may not have anything to do with it.

Why don't you straight out ask him why he changed his mind? After all, this is a guy you want to marry, so you should be able to talk openly and honestly to one another.

[talaniman]

Throwing tests at people, just to see how they will react, is a turn off, and a poor substitute for honest communications.

You better straighten up your act, and not play games. Come clean with your mistake, and be honest. It may help, or it may NOT!!

[jayjay87]

I really don't think you should be engaged at all. If your playing games asking him things 'just to see what he will do' that is just immature.