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Shorn9 · Sep 18, 2010, 12:37 PM

There is this girl that I really like Initially we were just friends but I came to find out that she really liked me even then but did not tell me. Several months ago, we started hanging out more often and I really did not like her that much at first but as time went on I started getting thisfeelings for her. That's when she told me that she liked me for a long time but was too shy about it. So here is the thing. Lately, she has kind of been avoiding me and not even answering her phone or even calling back. She just seems cold. The way she treats me now is like a total 180 from the way she was before. Problem is, I really really like her. I know she knows that I just cannot get her out of my mind... Unlike previous relationships wereby I did not put a lot of effort, this girl I worth every bit of effrt. I just don't know what to do because it kills e when she does not answer her phone. Several weeks ago, we were to go to the movies but when I called her the day of the movie, she says she had completely forgoten about it. She sometimes is very loving and stuff.. like last week.. but others she is just cold.What do I make of this?

beachloverjohn · Sep 18, 2010, 01:13 PM

I think she liked you better when you were just friends. Maybe your "extra effort" is scaring her away. Why don't you go back to your normal behavior and not try so hard with this one. Maybe nobody told her how lucky she is to have you so interested in her. Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable around you as she did before. Maybe you just can't win them all. The main thing, if she is not showing any interest in you, then my advice is to move on.

talaniman · Sep 18, 2010, 01:21 PM

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Are you still married but catting around on your wife again??

Devorameira · Sep 18, 2010, 01:37 PM

Believe it or not, she may just not be as interested in you as you think. It's possible that she just wanted to be friends and you're pushing the envelope and making her uncomfortable.

Why not just ask her straight out if she has any interest in starting a relationship with you? At least then you'll know for sure.

Shorn9 · Sep 18, 2010, 05:05 PM

Thing is, she is the one who started all this. Asked me out, took me to a very expencive restaurant for a very romantic dinner for my birthday. We have even made out. May be its me but.. one does not do that with "just a friend".