[ladypants]

Hi just did a Google and found this site! Feel like I have been led her somehow.

Its totally cool if nobody answers as I don't know if this is OK... but I have just broken up with my boyfriend after 3 yrs, he's telling me I'm making a big mistake. Kind a scared now that I could be. I have been so so so unhappy and now its over with him I'm even lower.

I'm a very spiritual person but I seem to have lost my way. Not really sure were my path lies and have lost the motivation to seek it. I feel so far away from myself that I consider myself lost.

If there is any kind soul who is able to complete a reading of hope for me, I would be very grateful.

My dob 21/11/79 my ex matt 17/10/74

[Fr_Chuck]

There have been a couple come but in general I have not seen a lot of them here in the past, but we do get 100's of new people all the time joining us, so who knows the type of perosn who may have joined just today.

If you don't get a response in a while, you can try asking again.

Many of us here believe we make our own chioices and we use wise choices to guilde us

But welcome to the site and I hope you find some of the things you are looking for here.

You may also wish to go to the relationship section and explain more of the details and while not mediums there are many great relationship people there

[JoeCanada76]

It does not matter what this guy is saying to you. What matters is what you are saying to yourself. You have decided to end this because it was your choice, and you were unhappy. Honestly though even if you feel lower, or even if there are rougher waters coming. Do you know what will happen. This rough ride, these rough waters will be a growing experience for you. In the future, brighter skies are ahead. See it is all in how we look at the situations around us that will effect how we feel. So I believe that we should be thankful even for the rough times. No one can say for sure what the future holds, but every decision we make will be the right one, even if at the time it might not feel like it. So do not listen to your ex boyfriend because honestly he is a negative influence and you do not need that. I feel you made the right decision. Does not mean it will be easy but believe me you made the right decision for yourself. Hoping and praying for the best for you and remember each and everyday is the most important day, and do not always be looking in the past because then you will not be able to move forward to the future.

Joe

[Bluerose]

Not a medium but have often been called an Oracle because of my interest in astrology - for entertainment purposes only.

For entertainment purposes only.

You may find this of interest.

YOU: Lots of introspection. You will be doing some serious thinking regards affairs of the heart. You may be seeking a peaceful place in order to restore your sanity. Romance is in the air but then it always is, it just depends on whether you are looking for it or trying to escape it for awhile. You can be very warm and passionate as long as things are going your way. You are strong minded and are willing to fight for what you believe in, even if it means you might fall out with a dear friend. You need to get in touch with your true passionate nature. Be more understanding and less demanding. You are not afraid to work for what you want and money just finds its way into your bank account. You appreciate the finer things in life and are happy to work for them. You are a good organiser and would make a good adviser. You understand what motivates people to do a good job and will find yourself in situations where people want your advice. Your creative insight expresses itself and gains you the recognition you deserve. What you need to do more of is to show your appreciation and gratitude for other people's efforts no matter how small. Your life needs a bit of an overhaul. Changes on the way. A new house or a new job, maybe a new important relationship. You will be receiving a few surprises in the next couple of months. Some foreign travel ideas become important to you. In any new relationship it is important to make time for your own needs and to seek out a balance between their needs and your needs. Taking care of yourself and getting fit and healthy will improve the quality of your life no end.

HIM: He's doing a balancing act. With what, I'm not sure. He's a chancer, a regular tightrope walker. He can patiently give of his time, and can weigh new ideas without jumping to conclusions. Right is right, wrong is wrong and facts are facts. And by sticking to the rules he can make life quite easy for himself and anyone one else who wants to fall into step with him, but the pace might be too slow for you. He likes rewards and recognition for his good work and his patience. He may have mastered some communication skills which bring deep and worthwhile transformation. People listen to him because he usually has something important to say. The home fires burn strongly for him and family is important. He will be proud of his roots. He is rather soft hearted and can give without expecting anything in return. He is nurturing and can help others to be more successful in their own lives. Short trips and some travel will intellectually stimulate him, but hearth and home beckon. He is optimistic to change, and will start new creative projects using his idealistic visions and wonderful imagination. He will benefit from finding his inner resources and expressing them artistically. Creative writing could be greatly profitable for him.

Summery: He wants to stay put and you want to travel or at least just do something with some excitement attached to it. You work hard, he works to get by. You like meeting new and exciting people, he prefers old friends whom he can trust. Basically he is a river going with the flow and you are a volcano waiting to erupt. This relationship can work with lots of negotiation and compromise. It needs both to be willing to seek out and incorporate plenty of balance into the relationship.

[Metaphysician]

I see you are getting some absolutely excellent information here. Listen to your heart and follow it. Soul is a happy being and if you have been unhappy you are not experiencing who you really are. There are many questions to ask yourself now, take the time to explore the joys you missed during this relationship. Now is the time to learn to love yourself - rediscover your joy and not fret over choices made. You are free to expand - if prayer is your nature, use it, if meditation is your path, use it, if simply expressing yourself through movement is your path - use it - dance, sing, bake, paint, talk, play. You are soul - remember. Creator is your real father and all you desire is available once you are open to it. Take this time to learn to love you!
Sending angels to hug you.
Best always,
Michele

[ordinaryguy]

You're 27, he's 32. In terms of astrological cycles, he's coming out of his Saturn return, and you're going into it. Saturn takes about 29 years to complete a revolution around the sun, which means that it comes back to position it was in at birth in the late-twenties to early-thirties.

Symbolically, Saturn represents the function of defining boundaries, limits, structures, foundations, focus, discipline, authority. As you might expect, this transition is seldom smooth and painless. This represents the completion of childhood and youth and the beginning of real adulthood. It is a time to decide what is fundamental to your true self and what is peripheral, and to let go of the distractions and focus on the necessities. Not surprisingly, many relationships don't survive the transition.

The next four or five years will be both eventful and consequential for you. You will be making choices and setting patterns that will inform and shape the next thirty years of your life. To do this wisely and with understanding requires you to get back in touch with your spiritual nature so that you can make these choices from that perspective. I can't tell you how to do that, but I can tell you that your success will be proportional to the purity of your motives. There is no easy way, but some ways are more healthy and productive than others, so focus on your highest and best ideals and aspirations and make your choices according to those values.