[trinity04]

I been with my boyfriend for 9 yrs and I never cheated on him during the time we were together I went to South Carolina to visit family, I'm not a drinker but had a few to many drinks and met a someone and went with him to his house after the bar around 5am and one thing led to another and we had intercourse and trust me I regret every bit of it but I lied to my boyfriend about the whole thing in the beginning and now its been 4 months since this has happened and I have told him the truth about what happened but he still doesn't believe me how can I get him to believe me so we can move forward with our relationship

[Homegirl 50]

If you told him what happened, what is it he does not believe?
Does he think it will happen again?
What kind of relationship do you have with a boyfriend of 9 years? That's a long time.
How old are you guys?

[justalone]

I think that the best thing is to try to discuss that with him and have determination to be better and never do that again.

We are not perfect , we do mistakes , and we have to understand each other , and see the good parts in our relations