[teja15]

Please keep all questions regarding the same issue in the same thread

Hi I am a student studying engineering.In my class there is a girl whom I like but its attraction or love I don't know.what should I do.I think she has a nice impression towards me.she is beautiful but I am an avg guy.anyone suggest me.

[slapshot_oi]

Love is a relative term.

What you should do is ask her out.

[redrumx3]

Love forms over time. You can't possibly love someone you know nothing about. However, attraction and lust are instant.

[I wish]

Talk to her.

[pardawg45]

Yes, you should talk to her, if you get rejected at least you know. Looking from a distance never got anyone anywhere.

[teja15]

Its me again.As I told you I like That girl she has a nice impression on me but I don't know exactly.I tried to talk to her but it seems she has no interest in me what should I do

[I wish]

You've done your part. If she's not interested in talking to you, then you can't force her. If you push a conversation onto her, it won't be pleasant anyway, she has to be willing to.

If she's not interested, then find someone else who's willing to talk to you.

How old are you?

[talaniman]

Just because you are interested, and attracted, doesn't mean she is, and once you have established she has other interests, and not really interested in you, then its time to move on to someone who is.

That's how you get a date, and stop running into a brick wall, you just pursue other options, and opportunities, and don't let failure to get what you want, shake your confidence in yourself.

[Homegirl 50]

If she is not interested in you there isn't anything you can do.
There are other girls I'm sure. Look elsewhere.

[teja15]

Hi.everyone I am In love with one girl she is also intrested bu she's afraid of her parents.shes my classmate I am ready to marry her after engineering.I am In final year,but our castes are different.What should I do I can't let go her.My mind goes blank and I become out o words when I think that I can't be with her .What to do I am desperate.

[dhuber]

You have to first find out if she is inerested. You can't have a relationship by yourself. You have to also find out how you are going to approach her. Test the waters and see if she is willing to go on date one. Find out if you have anything in common and then decide if this is long term. Tastes can be different and still be very compatible. Before you leap, have lots of time to really get to know her

[talaniman]

I don't get the marriage before getting to know her and understanding how she feels about you, and add that to the social, and cultural restraints of your society, I would say there are many obstacles before you.

The main one though will be your lack of being able to talk to her because you have more fear, and inexperience, than confidence. I think talking with an older brother, or even your father can help you a lot, other wise a TRUSTED older adult can help guide you to the proper path of action.