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  • Aug 31, 2010, 09:53 AM
    teja15
    About love
    Please keep all questions regarding the same issue in the same thread

    Hi I am a student studying engineering.In my class there is a girl whom I like but its attraction or love I don't know.what should I do.I think she has a nice impression towards me.she is beautiful but I am an avg guy.anyone suggest me.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 10:04 AM
    slapshot_oi

    Love is a relative term.

    What you should do is ask her out.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 11:56 AM
    redrumx3

    Love forms over time. You can't possibly love someone you know nothing about. However, attraction and lust are instant.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 12:38 PM
    I wish

    Talk to her.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 02:21 PM
    pardawg45

    Yes, you should talk to her, if you get rejected at least you know. Looking from a distance never got anyone anywhere.
  • Sep 1, 2010, 05:46 AM
    teja15
    About love
    Its me again.As I told you I like That girl she has a nice impression on me but I don't know exactly.I tried to talk to her but it seems she has no interest in me what should I do
  • Sep 1, 2010, 09:08 AM
    I wish

    You've done your part. If she's not interested in talking to you, then you can't force her. If you push a conversation onto her, it won't be pleasant anyway, she has to be willing to.

    If she's not interested, then find someone else who's willing to talk to you.

    How old are you?
  • Sep 1, 2010, 09:40 AM
    talaniman

    Just because you are interested, and attracted, doesn't mean she is, and once you have established she has other interests, and not really interested in you, then its time to move on to someone who is.

    That's how you get a date, and stop running into a brick wall, you just pursue other options, and opportunities, and don't let failure to get what you want, shake your confidence in yourself.
  • Sep 1, 2010, 02:35 PM
    Homegirl 50

    If she is not interested in you there isn't anything you can do.
    There are other girls I'm sure. Look elsewhere.
  • Oct 15, 2010, 05:32 AM
    teja15
    About love
    Hi.everyone I am In love with one girl she is also intrested bu she's afraid of her parents.shes my classmate I am ready to marry her after engineering.I am In final year,but our castes are different.What should I do I can't let go her.My mind goes blank and I become out o words when I think that I can't be with her .What to do I am desperate.
  • Oct 16, 2010, 07:44 AM
    dhuber
    You have to first find out if she is inerested. You can't have a relationship by yourself. You have to also find out how you are going to approach her. Test the waters and see if she is willing to go on date one. Find out if you have anything in common and then decide if this is long term. Tastes can be different and still be very compatible. Before you leap, have lots of time to really get to know her
  • Oct 16, 2010, 09:04 AM
    talaniman

    I don't get the marriage before getting to know her and understanding how she feels about you, and add that to the social, and cultural restraints of your society, I would say there are many obstacles before you.

    The main one though will be your lack of being able to talk to her because you have more fear, and inexperience, than confidence. I think talking with an older brother, or even your father can help you a lot, other wise a TRUSTED older adult can help guide you to the proper path of action.

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