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maddy308 · Jul 22, 2010, 09:47 PM

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now an I have only given him oral 3 times. I want to do it more but I am a bit enexperanced although he says its amazing.I also want to get him hard using my mouth. Would any of you guys be freaked out an how would you react if a girl started to lick on your balls and stick your non erect penis into there mouth :confused: anso can anyone give me any good tips and technics. Thanks

Alty · Jul 22, 2010, 10:06 PM

How old are you?

martinizing2 · Jul 22, 2010, 10:34 PM

We have to know your age before we can respond.

kp2171 · Jul 23, 2010, 01:58 AM

How old is he? How old are you? Has he had previous partners? Have you? How long together?

More info means more intimately detailed advice.

mudweiser · Jul 23, 2010, 05:35 AM

This is just something you learn on your own.

Haha just imagine bringing a friend over and be all like "show me how to do it".

martinizing2 · Jul 23, 2010, 05:53 AM

We can always dream

Cat1864 · Jul 23, 2010, 06:11 AM

Age before Answers

Maddy, your age is very important to our being able to give you an answer. Please respond or this thread will have to be closed.

martinizing2 · Jul 23, 2010, 06:38 AM

Is she a youngster? Going to get us in trouble? I'm out of here

Alty · Jul 23, 2010, 09:36 AM

Originally Posted by martinizing2

Is she a youngster? Gonna get us in trouble? I'm outta here

I'm just going by some of the spelling in her OP. If I had to guess based on that, I'd say that you, she's a youngster.

Maddy, we cannot and will not give advice on this subject until we know your age.

maddy308 · Jul 23, 2010, 09:55 AM

I am 23 and he is 21 and we have beed together for 5 months now and we have both had previous partners

Alty · Jul 23, 2010, 10:28 AM

Originally Posted by maddy308

i am 23 and he is 21 and we have beed together for 5 months now and we have both had previous partners

Thank you for answering.

I hope you understand why we had to ask your age before responding. We have a lot of teens that post here, even though the forum is called Adult Sexuality, and we morally and legally cannot give sex advice to someone under the legal adult age.

Now we can get to your question.

Have you talked to him about what he likes? The best way to figure out how to please your man orally, is to ask him what he wants. That in itself can be a major turn on. Let him explain to you exactly what he wants you to do, and than go from there. You can return the favor by giving him step by step instructions on what you like. Talk can be very erotic. :)

Every man is different, just like every woman is different. What works on one guy may totally turn off another. We can give you tips, but there's no guarantee that your boyfriend will respond to what we suggest, so really, your best bet is to ask him.

Make it fun, part of foreplay. You may be surprised how talking about it before performing the act can really heighten the experience.

Good luck. :)

CravenMorhead · Jul 23, 2010, 10:52 AM

Tips and techniques. It varies on a number of things. Many, many things.

First off, cut or uncut. You need to play differently. I think you can be a little more physical for a cut penis. Your mouth is half your toolset. Use your hands as well. If he is uncut, just be a little more gentle because there are other tissues and the like that could rip. Last thing you want is a mouth full of blood and a boyfriend in pain.

Ask him how he likes it. You might be surprised. Don't take any criticisms from him as you're doing something wrong, you're just doing things differently. Learn how he likes it.

So basically what altenweg said.

maddy308 · Jul 26, 2010, 05:00 PM

Also would it be weired to tell my boyfriend I love him righ in the middle of sex? It almost slipped out lastnight during sex but I caught my seld an said something else, I didn't want to ruin the moment. Would it freak himout?

CravenMorhead · Jul 27, 2010, 07:17 AM

Originally Posted by maddy308

also would it be weired to tell my bf i love him righ in the middle of sex? it almost slipped out lastnight during sex but i caught my seld an said something else, i didnt want to ruin the moment. would it freak himout?

Maybe, maybe not. Depends on the man and how he feels. Also if he believes that people are honest while screaming during sex. Is it the passion, desire, or the sensation speaking or is that how she actually feels?

Do you love him? If you do don't worry about it. If you don't... well than don't say it.

Cat1864 · Jul 27, 2010, 08:23 AM

Originally Posted by maddy308

also would it be weired to tell my bf i love him righ in the middle of sex? it almost slipped out lastnight during sex but i caught my seld an said something else, i didnt want to ruin the moment. would it freak himout?

Would it have been the first time you said you love him?

I think I would be more concerned about feeling like he would freak out at any point in time if I said 'I love you'. I find it disturbing that expressing a very positive emotion would 'ruin' the moment.

martinizing2 · Jul 27, 2010, 01:41 PM

Originally Posted by maddy308

also would it be weired to tell my bf i love him righ in the middle of sex? it almost slipped out lastnight during sex but i caught my seld an said something else, i didnt want to ruin the moment. would it freak himout?

It shouldn't. Sex is an expression of love.

And as what you do ,since this is new I don't think you can do much wrong.
It will all be exciting. But as you go you can ask what he likes, I am fairly sure he will be happy you did.