[Thien]

How to get a girl who has boyfriend in a faster period and better way ?
I not mean like 1 day or 1 week to do it . Just need faster method to achieve it..

Here's the situation

Last week I got her number from somewhere else ( not from her , I know this is wrong but I'd done it.. ) erm.. after explaining somehow , she's appears to be fine with it . She knows who I am , and we got talked before a few times , as I will meet her almost everyday at the campus. I know she got boyfriend but it ain't she tell me

I text her almost everyday ( I know this sounds annoying ) , but I couldn't resist it . Well , she replied warmly every time I text her . It's been 6 days I text her everyday , she replied about 95% of the text messages.

Here's the problem
Yesterday, I saw her writing that she loves her best friends ( she talked in chinese language )
She's on at msn , so I chatted with her there . I said I wants love from her too ( not in serious mode ) , and she said only for her BEST friend . Well then I said , "i'm your friend too" and then she replied "sorry, i have boyfriend already"
Few words later, I stopped the conversation with her and said good night

The next day, I asked her ( in text ) is it OK for her to text me first, because I scare I would disturb her when she's busy studying or doing other stuff. Well then she said "actually i don't want to text with guys so much, i scare my bf will not like it".
Then I just type " is that mean i don't find u so much ? :( " . She replied "ya...don't be sad =)"

OK done . Now I don't know what I want to do anymore , whether to text her , talk to her , ignore her totally , avoiding her or what ?

I really do want to get to know her more and have a relationship with her more than just a friend.
Can someone guide me what to do next and few other steps next before I could go on my own again ?

[Devorameira]

She's been honest and up front with you in telling you that she has a boyfriend and her boyfriend may not appreciate your texting her.

You can speak casually to her, but you should really quit texting and calling altogether.

Go out and find yourself a nice girlfriend that is interested in you and who isn't already taken.

[Thien]

Hmmm . I never called her..
Do you mean I have no chance at all ?

[Cat1864]

She is in a relationship. She is not available to be more than a friend to you.

Leave her alone.

Find someone who is not in a current relationship.

[Thien]

Do u mean that even after she break up , I will have no chance?

[redhed35]

IF she breaks up with him you might have a chance,however,I get the impression she was just being polite responding to your texts,calls,msn etc,and finally she may have thought,this is getting a bit much.

So,stop calling her,and move on,get busy in your own life.

[ISneezeFunny]

... so many wrong things here. I'll forego the grammar... mainly because I think you're using some sort of a translator.

However...

last week i got her number from somewhere else ( not from her , i know this is wrong but I'd done it .. )

... what? Why would you get someone's number from someone else? If a girl asked me for my number, then fine... I'd either give it to her or tell her, "Sorry." But if she got my number from someone else... that's borderline creepy.

i know she got boyfriend but it ain't she tell me

So she's supposed to go around telling people she has a boyfriend? Buddy, I don't tell 99% of the people I meet that I have a girlfriend. If you KNOW she has a boyfriend, rule #1: stay away. Let's say you get this girl, and then what? What if some other guy comes on here and asks, "How do I get this girl from her boyfriend?"... you probably wouldn't like that.

I said i wants love from her too ( not in serious mode ) , and she said only for her BEST friend . well then i said , "i'm your friend too" and then she replied "sorry, i have boyfriend already"
few words later, i stopped the conversation with her and said good night

There, she told you she had a boyfriend... so now what? Leave her be.

ok done . now i don't know what i wanna do anymore , whether to text her , talk to her , ignore her totally , avoiding her or what ?

Dude, she said she has a boyfriend. It's over. Either JUST be a friend, or leave her alone. Two choices.

[jmjoseph]

So you want US to help you try to steal another man's girl away? Not going to happen.

You thinks it's wrong to get her number from somewhere else, but not wrong to be basically stalking someone else's love?

Reach your arm out straight, then slap yourself on the side of your head. Do it twice. Both arms. Then go about your business, and seek the company of an unattached girl.

You are obsessed. Get over it.

[Thien]

Hmm.. I'll take all of your advice and stop it .

Thanks for all your answers.

I just don't know what to do..

[Cat1864]

hmm.. i'll take all of your advice and stop it .

thanks for all your answers.

i just don't know what to do ..

Pay attention to the little voice that is telling you it is wrong to pursue her.

Good luck meeting females who are available to date you. :)

[talaniman]

Get your own girlfriend!! Leave her alone until you get over your treacherous ideas.