[rachelgreen]

I have been with my boyfriend for three months and its been already a month that I'm living in a different state. We said we will stay together because none of us wanted to lose each other so we are having a long distance relationship now. We don't talk much now but last time we spoke he sounded pretty distant and he made me think that he doesn't trust me no more. He also left me a text message the next day saying that we need to talk when we see each other. "We need to talk"; from my experience this is not good news. I'm bursting into tears every time I read this text; I texted back asking what are we going to talk about without any reply. I love him and I feel so lucky to have him in my life and I don't even want to think about losing him. I feel that if he ripped my heart out of my chest that would be less painful!

[montelee]

Don't stress your selve over him find somebody else true love is not there you been together for 3 months.

[talaniman]

I believe that though you are willing, neither of you is able to sustain this kind of relationships. Long distance requires you both to be very committed, and in full communications with each other and that's still no guarantee of success. Its really hard to bond and learn from each other so early into this, (3 months), if you even have something other than attractions to build on because despite the attraction that got you together, the distance works against you.

Sorry but long distance relationships are very hard to do, especially for two strangers. How old are you both?