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    #21

    Jun 28, 2010, 11:16 AM

    Umm why not? Going to the beach is just another place to go for a date.
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    #22

    Jun 28, 2010, 12:11 PM

    Where have you been going the other times?
    It's a date. He's not asking you to go to bed.
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    #23

    Jun 28, 2010, 12:33 PM

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ts-477629.html

    Is this the same guy?
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    #24

    Jun 28, 2010, 03:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    I'd like to know that too. That give this a new twist.
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    #25

    Jun 30, 2010, 03:16 PM
    Better then nothing
    Hi, I date a man because he is better than nothing. My question is: is it better to have better than nothing and go out (though I do not really like him ) or just to sit at home and swear at the destiny not to sending me 'the one'.. There are nice days , summer is great and I don't want to be at home alone. What shall I do?
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    #26

    Jun 30, 2010, 03:52 PM

    Hang out with friends male and or female!
    Dating someone because you feel they are better than nothing is condescending and tacky.
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    #27

    Jun 30, 2010, 05:59 PM
    You are selling yourself short and it's not fair to the guy. You don't need anyone to complete you. Be happy by yourself and then you'll have the confidence to meet guys you like.
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    #28

    Jun 30, 2010, 06:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    You are selling yourself short and it's not fair to the guy. You don't need anyone to complete you. Be happy by yourself and then you'll have the confidence to meet guys you like.
    Have to spread some rep, but you are right KitKat
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    #29

    Jun 30, 2010, 06:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Have to spread some rep, but you are right KitKat



    And so are you as usual:)
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    #30

    Jul 1, 2010, 01:40 AM
    Hi, Klaipeda!

    As far as intimate relationships are concerned, I think that it's far better to have nothing and feel happy about who and what I am, than to have something where I'm not happy with having it and where also having it causes me to think that I should have something else that will make me happy.

    It's a never ending cycle of need, when people aren't truly happy with who and what they are by themselves.

    I'm literally never bored and also never feel as though I need someone else to complete the person who I am.

    Thanks!
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    #31

    Jul 1, 2010, 05:25 AM
    A guy I dating for a short time says me very nice words.
    Just a quick question.
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    #32

    Jul 1, 2010, 08:32 AM

    We need to know what your quick question is. So far you have only made a statement that doesn't mean much without a question.
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    #33

    Jul 1, 2010, 09:06 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Clough View Post
    Hi, Klaipeda!

    As far as intimate relationships are concerned, I think that it's far better to have nothing and feel happy about who and what I am, than to have something where I'm not happy with having it and where also having it causes me to think that I should have something else that will make me happy.

    It's a never ending cycle of need, when people aren't truly happy with who and what they are by themselves.

    I'm literally never bored and also never feel as though I need someone else to complete the person who I am.

    Thanks!
    Good advice Clough!
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    #34

    Jul 1, 2010, 01:42 PM
    QUOTE by Kitkat22
    You are selling yourself short and it's not fair to the guy. You don't need anyone to complete you. Be happy by yourself and then you'll have the confidence to meet guys you like.

    I am not English and some sayings are puzzle to me. Can you explain please what is to 'selling yourself short'?
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    #35

    Jul 1, 2010, 01:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Have to spread some rep, but you are right KitKat
    What does it mean 'to spread some reputation'? How can I do that? I am not a student and do not have groups of friends to hung out anymore.
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    #36

    Jul 1, 2010, 01:47 PM
    I am not English and some sayings are puzzle to me. Can you explain please what is to 'selling yourself short'?

    You are not looking at the good qualities you have! You need to see the person you are and be happy with you. I'll bet you're smart, attractive and have a lot of great qualities. Look at those qualites and don't settle for anything but the best. You may be surprised at what you find.
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    #37

    Jul 1, 2010, 01:49 PM

    Thank to all really helpful!

    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    We need to know what your quick question is. So far you have only made a statement that doesnt mean much without a question.
    Sorry, my computer stuck and I couldn't print the remaining 'story':)
    The guy I date tells me nice words, so nice that I'm melting. Really beautiful. But sometimes he does not respond to my sms. Should I think he just is not serious or what else should I think?
    Thank you!
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    #38

    Jul 1, 2010, 01:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Klaipeda View Post
    thank to all really helpfull!
    You keep psting sweetie... we'll help you find the answers if we can.. OK?:)
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    #39

    Jul 1, 2010, 01:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Klaipeda View Post
    What does it mean 'to spread some reputation'? How can I do that? I am not a student and do not have groups of friends to hung out anymore.
    Spread some reputation means you agree or disagree. OK:)
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    #40

    Jul 1, 2010, 02:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    You keep psting sweetie....we'll help you find the answers if we can..OK?:)
    Thank you , very nice of you!
    Another question is: you are saying that I need to find the man I really like and am happy with or stay alone and be happy with myself. I do understand that there's no biggest true. The pint only is that this guy really cares about me..

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