[rsngthpry]

How can I tell that I am loving a boy to my parents?
I am in love with my classmate. He is in love with me from the past four years.

[Eileen G]

What are are you? Have your parents met this boy? Do you have a reason for thinking they would object to him?

You are still at school. It seems to me that it would be fine just to tell your parents you like this boy, and would like to spend some suitable time with him.

You do not have to say you are in love with him. There is a very good chance that by the time you are old enough to be thinking of marriage, you may be in love with someone else.

[Kitkat22]

How old are you ? Are you male or female?

[gobrella]

Listen I know telling your parents is hard and they probably like you you what ever but as long as you love him its OK and as long as you know its true there's nothing your parents can do to stop you from loving/liking him/her I mean I have been going out with this dude for 2 months now and he's amazing he loves me and I know it but I haven't told my parents because I know they won't approve because he's 2 years older than me but I'm going to because I want them to know I do like guys and there part of my life and I'm older now and they have to let go sometime so tell your parents :) best of luck to you <3 :)

[Kitkat22]

You should never keep anything from your parents. I feel you are probably in Middle School and so is the boy. If I'm wrong please correct me.

If you are underage and the boy is older that could be a problem. You owe your parents respect and honesty.. . Kit

This should also be moved to the teen section.

[jmjoseph]

Can you let us know how old you are please? Believe it or not, our response depends on that magic number.
This is in the "Marriage" section. I wonder why you are ready to get married already.

[Kitkat22]

Can you let us know how old you are please? Believe it or not, our response depends on that magic number.
This is in the "Marriage" section. I wonder why you are ready to get married already.

You said it.. for all I know they could be in Middle School.

[rsngthpry]

Sorry I am female and 21 years old. I finished my engineering last month. He is my classmate and all my family members know him as my friend. We both got selected for a job in different software companies.

[Jake2008]

You know him well, and you know your parents well, why wouldn't you tell them.

Is this a cultural problem?

[rsngthpry]

My dad is very strict . In status, he is lower than me then he is different caste also. These will be the main problems to my dad.

[Jake2008]

I think you already know the pros and cons of dating someone that your parents would not approve of.

Four years of your life is a big investment.

All I can say is good luck in finding a way, and hopefully soon, to tell your parents that he is your boyfriend.

[Kitkat22]

I think you already know the pros and cons of dating someone that your parents would not approve of.

Four years of your life is a big investment.

All I can say is good luck in finding a way, and hopefully soon, to tell your parents that he is your boyfriend.

You're twenty-one years old and goodness gracious what a great career path you have chosen. If you love this guy and he is of legal age... I'm talking nineteen or older... then I would tell my parents. May not be as bad as you thinks... Good luck... Kit

[gobrella]

Well you're a adult so its always good to have your parents blessing but if they don't like him well its not there life you know so some times you have to make some tough decisions in life but if your parents don't like him well they can't do anything about it no disrespect to any body