[sinner 123]

Salaam
I'm a girl & I love one boy he brought a proposal in my house but before that we have done sex , no one knows about it ,my father is disagree with proposal as he is of different language but he is Muslim.we want to do nikha as soon as possible,so that we must not commit sin

[justcurious55]

So, what's your question? And I'm curious, you said he is of a different language. But obviously the two of you must be able to communicate. Did you actually mean language? Or something else? I've never heard of language being a deal breaker for marriage, that's why I ask. But I realize every culture is different.

[sinner 123]

I want to get married with a boy who is a Muslim we loves each other & we have already made love before marriage we cannot tell are parents ,he bought the proposal & now my father is not agreed as he is from Punjab & I'm from Baluchistan
He is a very good person his family likes me he is working & he loves me
.I no I made a mistake but now I cannot go back I will seek forgiveness that's why we planned to get married .my father doesn't know about that .he says that he doesn't t like his family,but trust me his family is nice .

Why my father is looking for a boy who must be of our culture like Baloches.in Qur'an these things are not written .
A boy must be a Muslim ,handsome, must be offering prayers and all


Can I get married without wallli :( please help me

[talaniman]

It may not be in The Qur'an, but you (your father ) is still following the traditions of his tribe, and culture. Hard to go against without support from other family members, or elders.

I would refrain from further expressions of physical love until this can be sorted out. Can your mother sway influence with your father??