[jayjay114]

I say the best thing to do is to be straight foward with him. Admitt how you feel. What good will it do either one of you to hide it? I'm speaking as a guy, and I know that it's usually us that comes for the girls, but if you made a mistake by saying 'no', o well, you have to get over that. The thing about makeing mistakes like that is to never let them happen again. Next time, you'll be more aware of what is coming your way. So tell him, because if you don't, that's your loss, and his. Do the both of you a favor and be honest.

Thanks for the advice! But how should I tell him? In person? That's too aqward!

[jmjoseph]

HeavenlySpiced disagrees : Is that relevant in any form?

Well to start with, we ask that question before giving any type of advice to someone who obviously isn't an adult, in the "relationship" section.

How about YOU reading the site rules? Talk about about something being relevant. How about that? The site rules and terms of service are quite relevant.
Reddies, or disagrees, are for factually incorrect information. This question could/should be moved to the "teen" section, as to give this poster the best chance of getting advice from their peers. How do you know that this poster isn't 11 years old?

I was wondering when someone, who obviously doesn't have the TIME, or manners, to read the site's rules before they jump in and try to change them, would give me my next undeserved reddie. Well, it's you "spicey".

I stand by my original question. It's relevant, and quite necessary.

We all have busy schedules. Please try to take time out of yours to GO BACK and read the rules.

Edit: I see now why the age is issue touched a nerve with you. You are a 14 year old child, who needs help with flirting. Why are you posting in the relationship forum trying to give advice with no personal experience? Not to mention the "law" forum.

Use your manners, and read the site rules.

[Homegirl 50]

I am assuming that because you didn't want to say your age, you are probably around 14 and he is a bit older and perhaps his crush as you called her is his age.
If this guy likes you he will forget about his crush. If he doesn't he will play around with you.
Give yourself some time. This too shall pass.

[Flipsco]

My mom told me to stay away from the guy I liked. She was afraid he'd rape me. He's not that kind of guy. He was about to ask me out but then I told him what my mom said. I really like him though. I get really nervous when guys ask me out. And now I don't stand a chance.
You could tell him you do like him and that that other girl is very nice (even if she isnt) then say that you wish that you could be with him. Guys like it when you are nice.
People keep saying how old are you? To you and I'm only 13, so I don't think age matters.
Hope things go better with you than they did with me.