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So there is this guy, I met him this year. We were talking on IM, and he told me I was the prettiest girl ever, and that he likes me. I told him no, a bunch of times because I never saw him like that kind of guy. He told me that he really likes me, but I told him that I don't like him. But now I'm getting feelings for this guy, and now I'm regretting that I told him no, and I don't know what to do so, please help me! I'm open to any suggestions, if your willing to help me! Thanks.

Be honest with him and tell him that you realized that you really do like him and want to spend some time with him. It can't hurt!

How old are you please?

I would like to know how old you are too, but being honest with him, and just tell him you're not sure you know him well enough could encourage him. But I have to say, maybe you liked the attention, and only started to have feelings because you felt he would give that same attention to you.

That's something you should think about before you even give him any encouragement, as its not fair to make a guy yo yo back and forth between your feelings without a clue why you are so confused.

All you had to say was "I am not sure", or " I don't know you well enough", in the beginning.

OK so I like this guy and he told me he REALLY likes me, but he had this crush before me that I knew about but I feel like that will ruin everything in the future. I need help with this guy. He doesn't know I like him a lot but I do and I just feel like I should have told him I like him but I didn't. He's not my type at all so I don't know why I like him. He thinks he's cool and smooth but he's not! I want to know what I can do so PLEASE help me.

How old are the both of you, and does he have a girl friend? If so you need to leavehim alone.

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How old are you please?

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:cool: I'm not old at all trust me. I just need help with this guy because before he liked this other girl A LOT so I feel that its going to affect me and him in the future

Please explain how so??

Just talk to him. Just tell him that you've thought about it and with time you may end up liking him more and more.

Good luck!

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Originally Posted by Devorameira

Just talk to him. Just tell him that you've thought about it and with time you may end up liking him more and more.

Good luck!

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Thank you for helping. He has this other crush and she's hard to compete with. I really reeally like him and I just feel so lost! I feel like I'm his 2nd choice. Every day I like him more and more and more! This sucks help!!

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Please explain how so???

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Please tell me how old you are first

This post gives a little more information than your last one.

If he thinks he's cool and smooth and he's not and he's not really your type, then I have to assume that you're not really happy with everything.

Exactly what do you like about him?

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Please explain how so???

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Please tell me your age. Then I will tell you mine

There is no need to keep starting different questions about the same person, that's pretty confusing, and I am probably old enough to be your grandfather, and have a 14 year old grandson, and 5 more younger than that.

Answer your question? Hope so as your age is important to give you age appropriate advice. I think your 14-16. Am I close.

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Originally Posted by Devorameira

This post gives a little more information than your last one.

If he thinks he's cool and smooth and he's not and he's not really your type, then I have to assume that you're not really happy with everything.

Exactly what do you like about him?

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Well for me, my type is the exact opposite of perfect. I love a guy who shows a different side if himself everyday and that is what he does. He makes me feel special and I love everything about he's personality and his looks, everything about him makes me go CRAZY! He doesn't have a girlfriend but he wants me to be his girlfriend but I feel that his old crush will just ruin eveything

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There is no need to keep starting different questions about the same person, thats pretty confusing, and I am probably old enough to be your grandfather, and have a 14 year old grandson, and 5 more younger than that.

Answer your question? Hope so as your age is important to give you age appropriate advice. I think your 14-16. Am I close.

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Your pretty close.

If you are afraid of the competition you will never succeed.

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How old are the both of you, and does he have a girl friend? If so you need to leavehim alone.

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He doesn't have a girlfriend but he does have another crush

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Originally Posted by Devorameira

Just talk to him. Just tell him that you've thought about it and with time you may end up liking him more and more.

Good luck!

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He does like me and I like him but I don't know what to do. We are good friends and we laugh at each other etc. I know things about him and he knows about me. I might tell him I like him but I don't want everybody in the school to find out.. that has happened before.

I say the best thing to do is to be straight forward with him. Admitt how you feel. What good will it do either one of you to hide it? I'm speaking as a guy, and I know that it's usually us that comes for the girls, but if you made a mistake by saying 'no', o well, you have to get over that. The thing about making mistakes like that is to never let them happen again. Next time, you'll be more aware of what is coming your way. So tell him, because if you don't, that's your loss, and his. Do the both of you a favor and be honest.