[LJDK]

Hi.
When is a male on his sexual prime?
The last 2 weeks have been hell to me. All I can think about is sex. Me and my fiancé have sex about once a week, sometimes once in two weeks.

I have reached a point where most of our conversations revovles around sex. Mostly me trying to get her to agree to some experimentation like we did in the past. Problem is we have great sex and then she does not want it again for a week or two.

My problem is, I am so controlled by my urge for sex that I have once again tried finding it somewhere else, but then before I go through with it, I stop and pull myself out of the situation.

I don't know if its because I'm on my sexual peak, I'm 28. I don't know if it is because I use to watch a lot of porn, and have lately been watching it once a day, to satisfy this constant urge for sex. Its like sex is ruling my mind, my body and soul. Its my master. Its all I think about.

And its becoming disruptive because my fiancé needs support and all I can think about is sex... it feels like I can't be there for her because I have this selfish desire to satisfy my lust. What is going on with me?

I have never felt so out of control in my life. I don't feel guilty I mostly feel angry, frustrated, depressed. What should I do? Can I shrink help in these situations?

Watching the porn the last 2 weeks has given me a complex about my size. Im not nearly as big as those monsters in porn movies. Now when I look at my own it looks so small and useless. Perhaps I am trying to over compensate for this? I don't know. I have tried to get myself to not watch porn, but I can't even sleep.

Its become so bad that I wake up several times during the night with my hand on my penis... stimulating myself. Then its like... what the hell am I doing? And I turn around and go back to sleep only to wake up a few hours later with my hand on my penis again.

I honestly do not understand what is busy happening.

[Catsmine]

You've listed just about every stereotype that normally gets posted on this forum.

Are you really that bad off or is this a prompt for a chat thread?

The solution is simple: take control of your fantasy and take care of reality. It's not nearly as much fun but that's how it has to go.

[LJDK]

OK thanks for the advise.