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    Mar 10, 2010, 09:16 PM

    Well Pink, that's life, it doesn't always work out the way we want it to. I didn't want to be a single mom, but I made choices, and I have to live by those choices. Things change, we don't always get what we want. Sh!t happens, life happens, and you got to roll with the punches. You need to talk to your doctor and your husband about your feelings. You can't always live in fear of what other people are thinking or will think about you. When you fall, you need to pick yourself up and brush yourself off. I hope this makes sense. What's happening to you is a wonderful thing, but if it's not right for you, then you need to make that decision for you. It seems you already have your mind set. Just make sure you are doing what you plan on doing for YOU not for anyone else. What ever choice you make, make it for you.
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    Mar 30, 2010, 10:27 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Things change, we dont always get what we want. Sh!t happens, life happens, and you gotta roll with the punches.
    Your right. I told my mom and she said its kind of late for wanting to put my baby up for adoption. I also didn't tell my mom I was pregnant till I was about 5 months and she said that if I would have told her earlier we could have TAKEN CARE as in (abort) of it. The reason I didn't abort was because my husband who was my boyfriend at the time wanted me to keep the baby. I spoke with my husband about how I felt about giving the baby up and he asked me if I loved him and said he wasn't upset that I felt that way he loves me and told me to try not to feel sad too think about all the positives in my life. So I'm feeling a little better. I don't want somebody else raising my baby now that I think about it and like you said I got to roll with the punches. Im 18 but I have a good husband so hopefully everything will fall into place
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    Mar 30, 2010, 10:30 AM

    I wish nothing but the best for you Pink!

    Take one day at a time. You'll be okay.

    Keep me posted, and if you ever need to talk I'm here!

    You're not the first girl in this situation, and you certainatly won't be the last!

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