[goe]

My boyfriend has stopped making love to me,its now a week but we sleep together everday.we met last year January and when we met he told me his galfriend who is now an ex is pregnant and she doesn't know who the dad is. I've been supporting him day and night,he sometimes communicate with her and checking for the little boy who is not his. I have long complained but nothing is helping but he tells me that thre no longer dating. Sometimes he gets so moody,he do not want to do other important things with me.what should I do? Please help me its tearing me apart

[Metalhead11592]

Dear Goe,
I myself have recently ceased in showing my physical sexual emotions in that way but its because I want to have a more connected relationship with my girl friend. I want to simply think about her not doing intimate things with her. It doesn't mean he loves you less it just means maybe he's maturing more, also maybe he's seeing his ex pregnant and is scaring him into thinking it could happen to you. I don't know what their relationship is but the thing is depending on how their relationship ended there could still be suppressed feelings for her. Also seeing this girl without a father maybe makes him want to help take care and check in on her to make sure everything is OK. It could be a natural father instinct kicking in. It's a very complicated situation if you could relay some more information it would be appreciated.

[goe]

I love my boyfriend so much with da issue I raised last tym to you,I've decided to cal a counsella so thy can tok 2 both of us.he agreed because we can not live by fighting everyday and have no solutions 2 our actions.im warid oz sometimes he gets so moody and he won't tel me his problem,he also does not want to share his big things with me lyk his car,he gives it out with hardly with along scary face. Thy say actions are louder than words. I don't want to lose him and he doesn't want to lose me either,do you think I did the right thing by calling counsellars? Or pli suggest something that we can do to live happily.

[amicon]

First of all text/chatspeak is not allowed on this site-please use the best possible English you are capable of.

Secondly,by all means,try therapy.

[Ithappenstoall]

Need more details, how long have you been with him, how old are you guys ?
And like Amicon said, no text chatspeak, its quicker to type but longer to read

[Romefalls19]

Please do not use chat speak on here

[Devorameira]

I'm not text wise at all. Could you interpret what you were trying to say for us old-timers?

[ZoeMarie]

Have you sat down and talked to him about this calmly? If not you need to do so.

You're sure the little boy is not his? Maybe he feels that the little boy needs a father figure.

And a week is not so long to some people. Is it usually a lot more frequent?