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vastologist · Feb 12, 2010, 05:44 PM

This girl and I talked for a while but for various reasons never actually hooked up. She ended it and we didn't talk for a few weeks and now she texts me like everyday. I still like her what should I do? And she apparently got with some guy like last week but I don't know if that's true. Help

friend4u178 · Feb 12, 2010, 06:09 PM

Why don't you ask her?

simplewisdom88 · Feb 12, 2010, 06:37 PM

Ask her why she still talks to you and if she doesn't have a good answer block her number. She seems wishy washy.

vastologist · Feb 12, 2010, 07:14 PM

I mean the situation is kind of confusing. Like I said we talked for a few months and then she broke it off because I was kind of a to her I think. We stopped talking for a while and now she texts me like everyday. She told me like a few days ago that she loves to talk to me but I don't really know what to make of it or what to do now

amicon · Feb 13, 2010, 09:02 AM

The only person who knows is her.
Ask her-then you'll know what she wants.

I wish · Feb 13, 2010, 10:02 AM

Originally Posted by vastologist

I mean the situation is kinda confusing. Like i said we talked for a few months and then she broke it off because i was kinda a to her i think. we stopped talking fo a while and now she texts me like everyday. She told me like a few days ago that she loves to talk to me but i dont really know what to make of it or what to do now

The real question is, what do YOU want?

vastologist · Feb 13, 2010, 10:03 AM

What should I say?

And I mean I want to start talking to her again

I wish · Feb 13, 2010, 10:16 AM

Then just continue to talk to her. You already said that she's texting you every day, so keep it up.

Quit worrying about the other guys around her. You're already jealous before she's even your girlfriend. Just focus on getting to know her better and ask her out sometimes. Let things flow.

Feelings develop naturally and over time. If she's attracted to someone one, there's nothing you can do about it anyway. Focus on the things that you can control. Focus on your conversations and interactions with her.

Glove And Gavel · Feb 13, 2010, 10:21 AM

I agree with the above advice,
Just make sure you keep both eyes open. She might be one of those attention-seeking people who simply want to hook up and nothing more. Watch for controlling tendencies in her. Even if things seem to be going well, do not expect a girlfriend out of this.
Good luck Vasto.

talaniman · Feb 13, 2010, 10:31 AM

Then talk to her, what's the problem?

Quasi89 · Feb 13, 2010, 11:39 AM

I think you should really talk to her and figure her out a bit more.

There are some girls that want a relationship and some that just want to be your friend and nothing more.

The thing to keep in mind is, just because she texts or messages you on chat relay, doesn't mean she's attracted to you. But then again, she could be as well. You need to talk to her and figure it out.

talaniman · Feb 13, 2010, 12:12 PM

Talaniman Rules-Never assume that your feelings are shared by any one else.

That only gets us carried so far away we ignore the facts.

vastologist · Feb 14, 2010, 01:56 PM

Eh I guess ill try talking to her thanks guys

Kitkat22 · Feb 14, 2010, 02:15 PM

Talk to her! If you like her who knows what will come from just talking.

vastologist · Feb 15, 2010, 01:21 PM

I mean what should I say? Ha sorry I don't want to mess this up

talaniman · Feb 15, 2010, 02:36 PM

You know her, and you know how you feel, say what you mean, and mean what you say. Get the facts from her mouth, and proceed with the appropriate actions.

Maybe your not use to this but we can't give you a "rap", as that's us talking. Since you have been talking all along, this is no different except that you are fearful of what you may find out.

Overcome your fear, and be willing to deal with whatever the outcome is, good or bad.