[Josette123]

Okayy I'm on birth control the pill ortho cyclen and last week I finished my active pills and I'm guessing that was the week that my period was suppose to come well my boyfriend has my pills and he was sick he couldn't bring me anew pack so I missedthat day and the next he finally was able to bring me the pack the nxt night I took 2 pills had sex the next day don't use condoms but the boyfriend never busts in me and this Tuesday that just passed I took the pill late again because my phone wasn't with me to remind me and last month I got my period on the 6th and it's the 9th of January and still nothing I'm cramping and my breasts hurt the crampin and breast pain occurs every month before and during my period I took a test yesterday on the 8th and it came out negative but also last week I had a wrist pain and took medication and I took excerdine for my headache and I just learned that some medicines don't let the pill work properly I'm very afraid and cares my boyfriend doesn't think I am because of he same pain I don't know how normal it is to be late but if someone could please answer me and write me asap I would appreciate it please and thank u :)

[J_9]

If you can't take the pill at the same time EVERY day, then maybe you should consider another form of birth control. The pill is not effective if you don't take it the same time every day.

How long have you been on the pill? It can take a while before your cycles regulate if you are just starting. Otherwise, take a HPT using first morning urine. It is possible you are pregnant.

And please, your "bf never busts" for goodness sake, if you are mature enough to be having sex, you are mature enough to use the correct terminology. It's ejaculate.

[Josette123]

The problem is my parents don't know that I am on the pill I wanted to be safe because condoms were breaking and I was getting scared the nurse at the clinic I go to told me u didn't need. I had this problem last year too and switch to the shot but it was giving me headaches I've been on the pill since October and I didn't get a period for that month but I did for November and December before when I was still a virgin my periods were very irregular but I just now started keeping track of them and noticed that I still haven't gotten anything I'm getting discharge which always happens before I start I woke up this morning and my breasts don't hurt as bad I was cramping also so I'm trying to stay positive as everyone tells me too and also I take the pill late sometimes bcause on the weekends I'm with my family and it's hard but I might just switch and I don't think I can take a test in the morning I don't have a job and the last one was from money I had saved up could u help me out? Please and thank you