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    Jan 2, 2010, 04:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by rockchick182 View Post
    Yes but after a year and a half of constantly being sack off by him to go and do hobbies with his ex it does kind of make you think that maybe its not his hobbies that he's interested in. In your case you weren't going out with your ex (well you never mentioned it) and he is. Theres a difference.
    Get involved with some of your own hobbies and interests, and make sure you both still have your own time together.
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    Jan 2, 2010, 05:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by rosemcs View Post
    If it drags you down so much all the time, have you considered if your life would be more pleasant without him?
    Yes I have, numerous times. But every time I think about it I always get images of a movie I watch, and its not like he beats me up, or has actually cheated on me, or goes out round the town doing drugs and getting drunk all the time... so every time I come to wanting to leave him its really hard :(
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    Jan 2, 2010, 05:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by rockchick182 View Post
    Yes i have, numerous times. But everytime i think about it i always get images of a movie i watch, and its not like he beats me up, or has actually cheated on me, or goes out round the town doing drugs and getting drunk all the time.....so everytime i come to wanting to leave him its really hard :(
    Base your life on the reality around you, not a movie. What happens in the movies very rarely deal with the actual reality of life.
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    Jul 28, 2010, 11:06 AM
    I feel you girl.
    & One thing I've come to realize in my relationship is that even though you may hate his ex's guts, first find out what their relationship is like now.
    Is she slutty? Does she still flirt with him? Does he?
    Or are they just friends, if at all?

    I honestly don't believe that he's doing sports to be with his ex, because he seems like he's pretty devoted to you.
    But just be sure... If you have friends, or if he does that do the sports with him, ask them to keep an eye on him and his ex and tell you if anything weird goes on.
    Trust is necessary, but you have to see if he's worth of yours.

    Take care :)

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