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    UselessDesires Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 13, 2009, 09:21 PM
    Abusive Father!
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    I really need someone to talk about this to.. He's physically abusive.. I honestly want to scream at him sometimes, and tell him he's the one's who wrong, and he should go die in a hole.. But I'm so scared of him punching me, and beating me.
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    Dec 14, 2009, 09:58 AM

    Dear Friend... You need to elaborate on your problem...
    1. How old are you? Old enough to move out?
    2. Has your father always been abusive, or is it a recent change?
    3. Do u have any family members (mom) to confide in? If yes, are they helping you in any way?

    As of now, stay calm. Seek external help, help of elders or the church(if any). Try not to get provoked at your father - cause that might only aggrevate him more. Look out for a moment when your dad is in a good mood, and try talking to him in a calm and reassuring tone, and try telling him that he is hurting your emotions. Don't worry... the important point to note is - try to stay calm at all situations. Anger will only kill you!

    Will be praying for you.
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    Dec 14, 2009, 10:01 AM

    I agree we need more details. But there are several avenues open to you. The first would be a school counselor. They can get social services agencies involved if necessary. Or you can start with a school nurse if you have evidence of physical abuse.

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