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jessy0428 · Dec 1, 2009, 08:28 AM

That is the most childish and ignorant thing I have ever heard. It shows how immature you truly are that you have to sit there and down other people and their believes. If you think you know so much and don't want to take anyone's advice why did you even get on here and ask. You have to realize that when you ask a question you are going to get opinions ,that's just how it happens. Apparently you know nothing about the real world or your just that naïve. And what gives you the right to call white people ignorant just because we care about our kids and don't want them having babies when they are still babies. No living with someone who has kids is not the same thing as having your own . There is a huge difference. I think it is time for you to grow up and realize this isn't a fantasy world and not every thing is going to go the way you want.. people change , they outgrow each other.Even if they say they won't. And different doesn't mean ignorant.. it simply means different. People believe different things for different reason.. but that doesn't mean anyone's is wrong. My husband is Hispanic and I am white and we believe in raising our daughter the same way. Like I said , I believe you still have a lot of growing up to do. And if you end up getting pregnant , I hope you are able to take care of your kids and not someone else.

kayasmommy4109 · Dec 3, 2009, 11:51 AM

Ignorant white people? The only ignorant people would be person and that would be you! Your childish action are ignorant. Your excuses for being childish are ignorant and you trying to classify a whole race into one is ignorant!. once again this site is not only here to answer peoples questions but to give them advice and you are incapable of taking advice and or knowing what's best for your son seeing that you think it is okay to keep having kids to make a larger family for your family, and I know all about going to an accelerated school.. seeing that I go to one. You really need to grow up and realize that this is real life you aren't playing house any more. And to judge people for raising their children properly(meaning they have rules, and structure.) but you know its not you who are suffering it will be your son and a possible child... that's a shame! I do hope you are able to grow up and take care of your children and not end up losing them because you where more worried about your sexual needs.

Synnen · Dec 3, 2009, 11:57 AM

Why am I, an adult, so down on teenagers having kids?

Because *I*, as a TAXPAYER, end up PAYING for your kids.

Cross your knees, little girl, or look into an adoption agency. You're OBVIOUSLY not mature enough to be a parent if you're thinking about sex before thinking about taking care of your child---and thinking that it doesn't matter how many kids you have won't affect whether you go to college means either that YOU are not paying for college, or that YOU are not the one parenting your children.

And the fact that you have NO clue how much time and energy both college and children take shows me how --yup, I'm going to say it--STUPID you are.

AidenRaysMommy · Dec 7, 2009, 12:21 PM

Let me clear up hispanic for you, what I mean is Mexican. My family is from deep in Mexico. Idk where you are getting that I'm not taking care of my child? No one is going to take care of my child for me. The only other person that helps is my boyfriend. And I don't get how tax payers are going to be paying for my child. I pay for everything that my son and I need. I will not be paying for college because I was offered scholarships. I go to school full time now. I take 8 classes a day, and get homework every night from each class, I finish it without a problem. And I work.

justcurious55 · Dec 7, 2009, 12:37 PM

And you think you will be able to continue that with a few more kids? Keep dreaming. Even my manager was talking about his kids the other day, talking about what an unimaginable difference there is between having one child, and then having a second one. Him and his wife are grown, responsible, adults. Done with school financially secure. And he said him and his wife were certain that all of their friends that told them having a second child was a huge change had to be exaggerating. Until they had their second child.right now it sounds like you're doing really well. Don't be stupid and screw it up by having another child or two right now. Be smart. At least if you're going to have sex, be responsible and use condoms, in addition to the hormonal birth control.

kayasmommy4109 · Dec 7, 2009, 04:56 PM

This whole thing has been about trying to get you to understand that people do look down on teen parents, people are going to look down on you for making choice to not choose safe sex or no sex, and just because you are fine with one child does not mean you can handle more. It does sound like you are doing very well for yourself and son now but that does not mean you can do so if the boyfriend leaves or another child pops out any time soon.. you need to take a step back and see that every one here is not trying to make you feel or look bad but understand what it looks like outside of your situation.