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mudweiser · Nov 25, 2009, 05:00 PM

I posted a thread about moving on. I come from a pretty dumb old town and well this lady whom is like 10 years older than me has been basically "bullying" me and telling these weird lies that I have 5 guys lined up to be my daughter's father... it's just weird. I deleted my account from that social networking site where I kept in contact with people from my hometown. I blocked emails and everything... anywhozzils I got this message just a bit ago:

"YOUR SO done. Watch what happens now. Its called charma and trust me you are getting urs. And when it happens u know where it will be coming from. Take care lol well try to anyways. Wait and watch. YOu took things to far and got people involved now. You lil croward. YOU PUSHED TO FAR WATCH AND SEE UR CONSEQUENCES NOW. And it wont be me u have to look out for. Charama is a ugly when she turns her head. Duck. Its amazing what people are willing to do for one hundred dollars. YOU brought the ghetto out of me. Id love to run into you and see if u would say half the you been saying. And everyone knows u doing it just because u on the computer. YOU LOOK like a fool. Get off the computer and get a life u always on this . Go be a mother peace out. Il see ya."

Ummm?

What can I do to get her to stop! It's getting really annoying. She's writing to my sisters too!

Well if you know let me know.. this is getting pretty lame.

N0help4u · Nov 25, 2009, 05:21 PM

Tell her learn how to spell and form proper sentences.

Save everything as proof of harassment.

mudweiser · Nov 25, 2009, 05:24 PM

Originally Posted by N0help4u

Tell her learn how to spell and form proper sentences.

Save everything as proof of harrassment.

I did!

Thanks for the quick response N0help!

ohsohappy · Nov 25, 2009, 05:29 PM

Why the heck has she targeted you?
And what in God's name does she mean by "charma" it's KARMA (lady is not so smart)

Does she know you just over the computer or over the networking site?

mudweiser · Nov 25, 2009, 05:34 PM

No we're from the same town.

I knew her brother and we started talking. She was always on the wild side and just yesterday she turned on me when I said to her "saying something is random makes it unrandom- haha" because she said "I have a headache how random". Then she blew up and said that she didn't need my sh!t and well then it went downhill.

It really ticked me off when she metioned Rachy. I didn't threaten her- ever. I just told her basically not to judge me because she's an ex prostitute stripper drugger who didn't know who HER babydaddy was. I wasn't going to let myself be trampled but then that's when her little army started to jump on me and I was like okay screw it bye, delete, block, block!

She's probably calling my house but well I'm many miles away. To be honest I'm a little scared to come back home! :eek:

This lady is just taking this way too far!

ohsohappy · Nov 25, 2009, 05:41 PM

Dang, Maybe she has BPD or Bipolar, or maybe she's just a jerk. Anyway, If she keeps it up definitely try to contact someone for harassment, ESPECIALLY if she brings up Rach and you feel threatened. Definitely do what N0help said and save everything she sends you, and keep records of phonecalls or run-in's and EXACTLY what happened.

JudyKayTee · Nov 26, 2009, 08:19 AM

Just when I think MY neighbors are nuts...

I agree. Save everything and if you feel threatened, notify the Police. They may not do anything but there will be a record.

If you really feel like ticking her off, correct her various spelling/punctuation errors and mail it back to her.

Charma? Priceless.

artlady · Nov 26, 2009, 08:43 AM

She sounds a little whacked and you made a good choice by cutting off any contact.
Your intelligent and pretty and young and that can be very intimidating to some people,I don't have to tell you that!

I don't know where you live but in New York there are efforts being made to make people accountable for cyber bullying.
There are laws against it,how well or how thoroughly they are enforced ,I don't know.

The site administrator where you networked must have a policy against this type of thing,I would go there first.

Although her message was so strange and cryptic ,its hard to even fathom what she was truly trying to say.One fry short of a happy meal ? I think so!

Keep us updated ,let us know what happens.

mudweiser · Nov 26, 2009, 09:58 AM

Hey guys-- thanks for the help so far.

I did report her 3 times to the site, but I have also deleted my account, there was really no use in keeping it.

Yesterday she kept messaging my sister! She kept telling her that I need to straighten up or one day I'll get "it". She called me a devil worshipping atheist [haha now that was funny] and just kept going on that I was a sad person and that my "day would come".

My sister reported her and just didn't reply. She kept the messages too.

I admit I did my part-- no one can fight by themselves [unless they have mental issues] by telling her to "climb back on the pole and f-ck your way up to something of value" and "If the devil was real I would want him to take my soul in return to cripple her" and a few other nasty things. I shouldn't have done that now that I look back but well I later said "I apologize for the hurtful things I said and I'm done talking BYE". She kept egging me on and I did the whole blocking thing, and now we're here.

Agh. I just want her to shut it! I don't want to go back home [3hours away from my hometown] and have her harrass me there! I'm so over this, you'd think she would be too :eek:

artlady · Nov 26, 2009, 05:20 PM

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Artlady agrees: Just say I am closing this thread ,whatever the admins say here and have fun!
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I meant whenever she deems it OK to talk bad about you or your singing sisters!
You just make believe you're the adim of the site an tell her you are closing this thread! Yes indeed :)

mudweiser · Nov 26, 2009, 05:32 PM

Oh Artsy it's not a forum.

It's Hi5, a social networking site.

I'm no longer part of it and I haven't heard anything all day. Mostly because I told mutual friends that I don't want to hear it and I've blocked every possible way she COULD contact me. Now if she wants to go out of her way and come to my home well I have all the proof I need to show the cops she's been harassing me PLUS this thread.

So meh screw her. I'm done and over with it ;)

Thanks for the help guys!

artlady · Nov 26, 2009, 05:51 PM

So meh screw her. I'm done and over with it

Meh...
YUP er doodle ! :) :cool:

mudweiser · Nov 26, 2009, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by artlady

Meh...
YUP er doodle ! :) :cool:

You are officially the coolest or hip hippy I know.

Haha the hippiest hippy ;)

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