[lesley12]

:( OK check this out!! Me and my fiancé (dont know if I spelled that right) have a very nice sex life... sometimes too much! And she has never experenced an orgasm before and she feels that she may never have one. She told me that she has had a lot of sex in her younger years and feels as if she is "broken" and may never be able to experence an orgasm. I keep telling her that males have different orgasims than women and that all women experence orgasims dirfferently... I don't know what else to do I try talking to her and then she gets depressed and it makes me sad. I really want to please her but don't know how... I have given orgasims before but this one is a little harder to crack. Im running out of ideas... im really thinking about taking some sort of orgasims stimulaters or something. Please help:( :( :(

[MJ6216]

Try Warming Lube... that Might Work...

[Krs]

I'm one to favour oral sex ;)
That may work..

[MJ6216]

Yeah you can try oral... or... I know a lot of guys are against this... but try adding toys to your foreplay...

[Miranda]

How old is she? I HAD the same problem. I too had plenty of partners, and nothing would do it for me. One thing that might help is to quit asking her about it. If she is constantly feeling pressure to orgasm, it will not happen. If you want to pm me, I have a few pointers...

[MJ6216]

Well I have the same problem... wanna give me some pointers to? You can find my post in the adult sexuality section

[wanger]

Have you considered getting her a vibrator? Also, I know that everyone does this, but have you tried oral sex? It's just a suggestion, but a lot of the time a man doesn't always hit a ladies g-spot and that is what it is going to take to get her off. Good luck.

[lisa michelle]

I agree with a vibrater too.