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  • Nov 22, 2006, 08:02 AM
    lesley12
    Help Please!!
    :( OK check this out!! Me and my fiancé (dont know if I spelled that right) have a very nice sex life... sometimes too much! And she has never experenced an orgasm before and she feels that she may never have one. She told me that she has had a lot of sex in her younger years and feels as if she is "broken" and may never be able to experence an orgasm. I keep telling her that males have different orgasims than women and that all women experence orgasims dirfferently... I don't know what else to do I try talking to her and then she gets depressed and it makes me sad. I really want to please her but don't know how... I have given orgasims before but this one is a little harder to crack. Im running out of ideas... im really thinking about taking some sort of orgasims stimulaters or something. Please help:( :( :(
  • Nov 22, 2006, 08:24 AM
    MJ6216
    Try Warming Lube... that Might Work...
  • Nov 22, 2006, 08:44 AM
    Krs
    I'm one to favour oral sex ;)
    That may work..
  • Nov 22, 2006, 09:08 AM
    MJ6216
    Yeah you can try oral... or... I know a lot of guys are against this... but try adding toys to your foreplay...
  • Nov 22, 2006, 10:33 AM
    Miranda
    How old is she? I HAD the same problem. I too had plenty of partners, and nothing would do it for me. One thing that might help is to quit asking her about it. If she is constantly feeling pressure to orgasm, it will not happen. If you want to pm me, I have a few pointers...
  • Nov 22, 2006, 10:53 AM
    MJ6216
    Well I have the same problem... wanna give me some pointers to? You can find my post in the adult sexuality section
  • Nov 22, 2006, 11:05 AM
    wanger
    Have you considered getting her a vibrator? Also, I know that everyone does this, but have you tried oral sex? It's just a suggestion, but a lot of the time a man doesn't always hit a ladies g-spot and that is what it is going to take to get her off. Good luck.
  • Nov 26, 2006, 12:02 PM
    lisa michelle
    I agree with a vibrater too.

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