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    #21

    Nov 22, 2009, 10:07 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    mii appt aint until dec.14 what is a tubal preganacy
    Do you mean "my appointment isn't until dec 14. What is a tubal pregnancy?"

    Please don't use chat speak.

    A tubal pregnancy is a pregnancy that occurs in the fallopian tubes. It can be life threatening if not treated properly.
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    #22

    Nov 22, 2009, 10:09 AM
    Yeah that is what I'm talking about and don't try and come off I can write how I won't to but thanks anyway
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    #23

    Nov 22, 2009, 10:12 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    yeah that is what im talking about and dont try and come off i can write how i wont to but thanks anyways
    Please read the TOS... we don't allow chat speak here.
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    #24

    Nov 22, 2009, 10:14 AM
    Okay
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    #25

    Nov 22, 2009, 10:14 AM
    Use the best English you are capable of. "Chat speak", all caps, lack of punctuation, etc. can be annoying, and will frequently result in the post being either unanswered or removed.
    Found here... https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/faq.ph...#faq_faq_rules
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    #26

    Nov 22, 2009, 10:26 AM

    No she is not in medical field... and no I haven't
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    #27

    Nov 22, 2009, 10:30 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    Yes im 4 weeks pregnant
    Quote Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    no i haven't
    Please tell us how you know you are 4 weeks pregnant if you haven't taken a HPT and your doctors visit isn't until December 14.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...ot-418299.html
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    #28

    Nov 22, 2009, 11:39 AM

    See your OB/GYN asap!
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    #29

    Nov 22, 2009, 01:36 PM

    If I was you I would make a trip to the er if it's a tubal it can be very dangrous
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    #30

    Nov 22, 2009, 05:36 PM
    There are too many threads started by the original poster, I am closing this one
    In future posts, don't use text talk ( or they will be delted) and keep it all to one thread
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    #31

    Nov 24, 2009, 04:53 PM

    ... so I went to a party and I had sex with this dude so now I'm pregnant...
    Depends on who's the father. You better just tell him sooner rather than later.
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    #32

    Nov 24, 2009, 05:16 PM
    How old are you?

    First, you confirm the pregnancy and get started on prenatal care so that you can have a healthy child.

    Second, I guess you don't think your ex-boyfriend is the father since you have said he knows. Get in touch with the male you had sex with after you broke up with your boyfriend. Tell him straight out that he may be a father. If you are concerned that he might get physical, have an impartial third party mediate.

    Third, you hop from your ex-boyfriend's bed to some other guy's bed when you have been broken up for only a couple of days and you wonder why he might be upset or question the paternity of the child?

    Fourth, grow up and realize that you have been making some very poor choices. However, there is always a chance to work on making better choices in the future. Time for you to show some maturity in how you make decisions affecting your life and the child's.
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    #33

    Nov 24, 2009, 05:37 PM
    1) Go to the doctor or clinic and get a pregnancy test.
    2) IF it's positive, tell the "dude" you slept with during the break.
    3) IF it's positive, start your proper prenatal care immediately.
    4) You sound young, so you may want to decide whether you should adopt the baby out to a nice couple.

    Good luck with your decision.
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    #34

    Nov 24, 2009, 05:58 PM
    I'm 17 years old about to be 18 in two months. And no my ex boy-friend is not the father it's the other dude. I want to keep my baby
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    #35

    Nov 24, 2009, 06:37 PM

    Because I didn't have sex with mii ex for a while
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    #36

    Nov 25, 2009, 07:39 AM

    If he is your ex, and not the baby's father, why worry about telling him anything? Its not even his business.
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    #37

    Nov 25, 2009, 10:29 AM

    I'm giving a HARSHNESS disclaimer because this just sickens me...

    I do not blame this guy for not wanting you back. Just a few days after breaking up with him, you found someone else and had sexual relations with him... Now you have to put up with the consequences of your actions. Why would he take you back when you think you are pregnant with another guy's kid that you had sex with a few days after breaking up with him?? Leave him alone, I hate to say this, but he honestly deserves better in a relationship.
    Oh, and you don't love him. Love is commitment. You couldn't be committed. You may FEEL like you love him, but love isn't a feeling, it's a choice- and you chose to have sex with someone else. You don't love him.
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    #38

    Nov 25, 2009, 11:29 AM
    One of my friends told him that I'm pregnant.. you right I don't have to tell him nothing

    He tells me I'm in the wrong an he calls me cursing me out all the time then hanging up in my face but he do tells me he misses me but I'm not gone stress myself out nomore over my ex
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    #39

    Nov 30, 2009, 05:55 PM
    Counting the dates
    How do you count your weeks of pregnancy
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    #40

    Nov 30, 2009, 06:23 PM

    Figure out about when you conceived and count from there. You may need your dr's help figuring out when you conceived if you're not sure when you might have. They'll be able to tell, or at least give you a pretty accurate estimate, by the ultrasound how many weeks along you are.

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