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  • Nov 21, 2009, 12:29 AM
    shaneka
    Pregnancy and scared
    Yes I'm 4 weeks pregnant an I'm having bad cramps and I'm bleeding but I don think it is my period and the blood is coming out red but its turning brown.. can somebody please help me
  • Nov 21, 2009, 12:36 AM
    shaneka
    Pregnant an scared
    Is it OK to take a pill while your pregnant
  • Nov 21, 2009, 12:59 AM
    justcurious55

    That totally depends on the pill.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:03 AM
    justcurious55

    Are you sure you're pregnant? I only ask because hpt tests are barely reliable at this point. And seeing as there's no way you could tell exactly when you had conceived (since it may not necessarily be the day you had sex) it seems a little strange tha you could know already exactly how far along you are.

    Anyway, cramps and bleeding during pregnancy ALWAYS should be discussed with your dr.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:33 PM
    shaneka
    Yes I'm sure I have all the symptoms... im not sure executally how far along I am though... thanks
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:35 PM
    shaneka
    It's a pill called ocella because I'm having really bad cramps and pains so I was just wondering
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:40 PM
    rockie100

    Have you been to the Doc. Yet? You should be cunsulting them on this question and concern.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:55 PM
    artlady

    If you are pregnant and having cramps ,or any type of pain ,you need to see a doctor ASAP.
    Pain and cramping are not typical pregnancy symptoms.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 03:49 PM
    mamaof2boys

    Having all the symptoms does not mean youa re pregnant by any means. Have you taken an actual test or been to the dr? "pregnancy symptoms" can be caused by many different things. You need to take a test if you haven't.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:23 PM
    shaneka
    Ye sim sure I'm pregnant but my friiend tld me that its implantation bleeding
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:32 PM
    shaneka
    Tearing me apart
    Yes me and my boyfriend broke up for a couple of days before Halloween days for... so I went to a party and I had sex with this dude so now I'm pregnant... and he found out that I'm pregnant and he's mad and he thinks I cheated on him but I didn't.. and now we argue like everyday but I want him back but I don't think he wants me back but he calls me like everyday... what should I do because I really love him so much
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:38 PM
    mamaof2boys

    You still never answered the question, did you take a test? It could be implantation bleeding, it could be something totally different. It could be something serious. You need to call your doctor.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:55 PM
    talaniman
    I think you start with finding out if your really pregnant, and tell your parents.

    As for the boyfriend, I would be mad because you shagged another guy while on a break from an argument. That's not exactly a good way of showing love.

    Personally, I find it appalling you would be more worried about a dude, than the actions that got you in this mess.

    I think its time to leave the guys alone, and get some perspective on your own behavior, and what it means for your future, with whichever baby daddy who has to pay the support.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:59 PM
    shaneka
    Oh damn naw I isn't take the test yet imma take one tomorrow
  • Nov 21, 2009, 05:02 PM
    shaneka
    I didn't think nothing of it because we broked for good and he like we not together nomore... so I don't know why hell be mad because we won't together
  • Nov 21, 2009, 05:17 PM
    talaniman
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...lk-303157.html

    He obviously doesn't feel the same way. If it doesn't matter stop talking to him since this was a forever break up.

    By the way chat/text is hard for some of us to understand, so have mercy, please
  • Nov 22, 2009, 09:38 AM
    shaneka
    Is this something or not
    I been bleeding but I don't think its mii period so I'm thinking its implantation bleeding because when I 1st started to bleed it was brownish then light pink... an I have bad crampin and sharp pains in mii stomach an when I go to sleep I sleep with a pillow between mii legs and I lay on my side an the pain goes away but when I lay on mii stomach it hurts like hell... I need help
  • Nov 22, 2009, 09:48 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    ye sim sure im pregnant but my friiend tld me dat its implantation bleeding

    Please use complete words and sentences. This is not a chat room.

    Is your "friend" in the medical field? If so, she would know that implantation bleeding is not a medically proven fact.

    Have you taken a HPT yet?
  • Nov 22, 2009, 09:50 AM
    J_9
    You need to seek medical attention. Is it possible you have a tubal pregnancy?
  • Nov 22, 2009, 09:54 AM
    shaneka
    Mii appt isn't until dec.14 what is a tubal preganacy

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