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    Nov 9, 2009, 07:08 PM
    My boyfriend can't stay hard
    My 30 year old boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and lately he can't stay hard no matter what we do. We have tried everything, I mean everything and nothing seems to work. What could be the problem? Which doctor would we have to see about this?
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    Nov 9, 2009, 07:25 PM

    His general doctor would be a start, does he have a lot of stress in his life right now ? Any change in blood pressure or any medication.
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    Nov 11, 2009, 05:09 PM

    After seeing a general practitioner, he should consult a urulogist. If the problem doesn't turn out to be medical/physical, he may want to consider seeing a therapist that specializes in these issues.
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    Nov 13, 2009, 06:58 AM

    It could be due to stress and anxiety. My ex boyfriend had the same issue and it was due to the anti-depressants he was taking.
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    Nov 13, 2009, 07:05 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by PreciousLove View Post
    It could be due to stress and anxiety. My ex boyfriend had the same issue and it was due to the anti-depressants he was taking.
    Yes. Anti-depressants due tend to decrease one's libido.
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