[Foxygalady]

He left me when I needed him the most when I had suffered with him been there for him we lost our baby 2months later he left why?

[cdad]

It might help if you can define your loss a little closer. Was it miscarriage or premature or sids ?

Sorry for your loss and for having to ask but that could bring some more understanding so your question can get answered.

[Romefalls19]

Is there a reason why he left you? Personally, I have to ask, why would you want to be with someone who abandons you when you need them the most? I understand it's a hard time but if he's going to run away when things get tough, is this really someone you want to pursue a life with?

[JudyKayTee]

I see on the other thread that the baby died at 4 months - no answer so far as to whether it was SIDS.

It is not unusual for marriages/relationships to break up when there is serious illness or death in the immediate family. Perhaps the boyfriend simply couldn't handle his grief, perhaps he was looking for a way out.

He is the only one who knows. Have you asked him?

[Foxygalady]

The baby was born 7weeks before they told me she died because of bronco phnumonia.iI asked him why he left he just sent me a message saying I must not tell myself that he doesn't love me but its just that wit me he doesn't invest so he better leaves alove I could not understand what he meant by invest because currently he is not working.I have tried to date but I get angry or I just don't show up for the date I keep hoping he will come back because I deeply love him

[amicon]

Have you had any bereavement counseling to help you cope with over the loss of your child?