[bexxx]

Hey, I'm a teen girl who really gets on with both boys and girls. I usually have loads of boys and girls as friends, but lately the boys have been acting a bit odd. Well, we originally had around 6 boys who were our main friends, now we have none. Some of them left cause we realised they were horrible, and some left of there own accord and had new friends. I know it sounds like it's probably the girls who are as bad as the boys, but it really does seem like all boys are horrible. At the moment, I can't think of one boy who isn't a n*b, and it really upsets me, because I used to care about these lads, especially one, who was the only one I really had feelings for, and he said (quote): 'i had to get through all of you, the stupid people, to ge tto awesome people. I've found better friends and I won't miss you, I don't want to be friends eith you anymore'. That was the worst, but all the other boys seem to have done something simialiar, each drifted apart form us, or done something beyond being forgiven. It seems every boy we knew has turned out to be horrible, and most would count me and my friends as good judgers of character. I don't understand, it's really hurt me. Help?

[falon]

This is pretty easy if these boys found "better people" to hangout with then you find better people to handout with don't waste your time trying to befriend boys most of them only want one thing and you will find as you get older that guys leave more and more if they don't get want they want, I'm not saying that all guys are like that there are good ones out there too be friends with and some that are even dating material, just remember it's their lost not yours :)

[artlady]

Teenage boys are a little nutty and their behavior is rowdy and often times very immature.
When I was a teen us girls mostly hung out and only on rare occasions did we hang with the boys.
Don't take it personally,they are growing up and they are having issues that only they understand.
In a few years when they have matured things will get better.
It is widely known that girls mature faster than boys.They just haven't caught up with you yet.

[jrsg]

Teenage boys can be odd and immature, but this seems to be at a completely different level. I'm in my last year of secondary school, and people have changed greatly. People change, some for the better, some for the worse.

My advice would be to just move on from these guys. Find new friends, and be content with the ones you have now.

Maybe one day, they will realize their mistakes and come back, but don't worry about it. Move on, be happy, meet new people, and don't take it personally.

Good Luck!

[bexxx]

Thanks, all your comments have really helped :) xx