[juventus03]

Well I'm new to this site just signed up 3 minutes ago,I'm hoping to get advice from people and any will be appreciated. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years you can say. A lot has happened within those 3 years, she has left me gone out with a couple guys and came back I loved her so much I took her back and at the same time leaving someone whom I was with (she was a great person). I know pretty dumb, but I loved her (current gf) so much I took her back. A year and some change later I find myself annoyed quickly by her, get bored fast, and not missing her as much. I see her everyday and some days ALL DAY long. If I tell her I want to spend time with friends she goes crazy and starts getting fits. I'm pretty much frustrated, I'm actually arguing with her through texts now as I type this :confused: I don't know what to do. Any advice?
Thanks for taking the time to read this

[rockie100]

Ever heard if you dought it don't? I can tell you already know what you need to do. Its always hard to break up with someone you have given so much up for. Don't beat yourself up for losing out on that other great girl either. It in the past. You have just learned a lesson about trying to make something work that had broke on you once before.

[amicon]

If you re having serious doubts about your relationship you need to sit down and communicate this to your girlfriend.
From your post it seems its time you went your separate ways.

[I wish]

It doesn't sound like you're having problems with her. It sounds more like your feelings for her have changed. You just don't like her as much anymore. If that's the case, then it's time for you to make a clean break and move on, instead of dragging out the inevitable.

[jmjoseph]

"If it don't fit, don't force it"

She just simply may not be the one for you.

She has left you to go date other guys, and when you just want to spend time with your friends, she gets upset? That doesn't seem very fair.

I was in a relationship years agp, where we were always arguing about something. We ended up splitting, but it wasn't easy.

If she is not the one you want to spend all of your time with, or possibly the rest of your life, just end it.

Good luck to you.

[s_cianci]

I think your post is pretty clear and to the point. It doesn't sound like you feel very much for your girlfriend. That said, it isn't fair to either one of you to keep stringing her along. She might not like it but she'll have to get over it. It sounds like she's had her share of doubts too, so you really have nothing to feel guilty about by ending it with her.

[talaniman]

You have mistaken your lust, for love, and now that your out of lust, your seeing that there was no love.

Time to go, and end the misery. Show some dignity, and self respect for a change, and end the arguing by simply disappearing from her life.

[juventus03]

Wow thank you for all the responses, means a lot for me, thank you for taking time out of your lives to help me out thank you.