 |
|
| Browse | Ask | Answer | Search | Join/Login |
|
|
||||
|
What would I choose my family or my boyfriend who will die if I will go far away from
Well, for me in my situation I really don't know how or what is to decide, actually.
I will travel 6 hours from our home just to go to the place where I can be able to see my boyfriend. My boyfriend keeps on begging me not to leave him or just stay on this place. He don't want me to go far. One time I went to our home and wasn't able to go back to my boyfriend place it takes a week after I go back here and guess what he became thin and I asked him what's wrong why he became so thin then he never answer me until time came that my friend told me that the reason why he became thin its because he cannot eat because he missed me a lot.and one more thing is that my parents want me to stay to our home because its so expensive to live in the city by the way I live in a province. Give me some advice.. thnk you |
||||
|
||||
|
You can't be with your boyfriend because you are scared of his well-being. It's for him to take care of himself. If you're going to be with him, make sure that's what you actually want.
As for your parents, it depends how old you are and whether you are working. Can you find a job and earn enough income to financially support yourself? If you can and you're over 18, then you can move out and do your own thing. But if you're under 18 and don't have a job, then you live by your parents' rules. |
||||
|
||||
|
You need to decide how your going to live your life, but be aware that your boyfriend may not have a very healthy love as he neglects himself when your not there. That's a real red flag for you to think about, and TALK to him about. There may be something about him you don't know but need to. Are you ready to leave home and support yourself? Seems not if your parents are paying for your transportation back and forth. |
||||
|
||||
|
I think it sounds as if he has an unhealthy way of relating to you: begging you not to go is one thing, but not eating when you're not there is just not good... You shouldn't stay with him based on his health or the way he is acting. You haven't said that much about him or his behaviour towards you, but I d get the feeling that he is a bit on the needy side. How old are you by the way? Do you have a job or do you go to school? How old is he? |
||||
| Question Tools | Search this Question |
Add your answer here.
Check out some similar questions!
Merry meet, I'm a 25 yr old Wiccan who would like to bless another fellow Craft of the Wise person(s)-single/ straight/ gay/ or couple with a child of their own. How would I go about looking for the right family to give this child to? I'm new at this. Merry part.
Okay so I'm 20yrs old. My boyfriend is 21. Be both moved from our home towns to a different place and that is where we met. We've been together for 3 years planned on moving in together and getting married. Well he lived with his parents and I lived with mine. His family moved back to his...
Hey everyone. I have had a couple of rough days. My bofriend moved out last night because he says he can't take the bull anymore. He says he isn't coming back until my best friend leaves, He says she is nothing but a drama starter and she don't even have a job. Its really hard for me to decide...
OK so my boyfriend moved in last month and I guess most of my family dislikes him because he's not afraid to speak his mind and voice his opinion so I love him and I would leave my family for him but I love my family too and he don't want me to leave him or my family any advice?:confused:
I'm the kind of person who is very passive and easy going. Mostly because at the first sign of confrontation I give in. I was divorced 3+ years ago after 20 years. My children hated their father and demanded he leave. He was dominateing and abrassive. They said he was cheating on me but I doubt it....
View more questions Search
|
