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    claudia29 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 31, 2009, 10:31 AM
    We have a lease for 6 more months but he says he is not in love
    I have been living w/ my fiancé for over a year and just recently he has been distant and not affectionate. I try to talk about it and he gets defensive and says I am not a baby anymore. He says he loves me but is not in love with me. I do deeply love him... he told me not to force love... what should I do? And our lease is over in march 10??
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    Aug 31, 2009, 12:07 PM
    You need to sit down with him and have a proper talk as regards your future.even if it will hurt and even if he wants out.you can't live in limbo until your lease runs out.
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    Aug 31, 2009, 01:13 PM

    You need to confront him about your relationship. See if you can iron out your issues.

    If his feelings have really changed, then there's nothing you can do. You'll have to accept his change of heart and move on. In which case, try to move out ASAP or have him move out. Living together after you broke up will just cause you more pain and suffering.
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    Sep 2, 2009, 10:33 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by claudia29 View Post
    Hello, My boyfriemd cheated in april. He has a one night fling. till this day I can't forget what he did. I keep obsessing about the details , I keep wondering what she looked liked, and wondering how many times he had sex w/ her ( he did not come home until 10am the following morning) I wonder if he has seen her again. I love him so much that I dont have the strenght to leave him . I have been w/ him 3 yrs and e live together. I feel I love him more than he loves me (obviously) ... I would love to see how u are dealing with this pain .......I no longer trust him ... everytime he steps out I assume he is cheating ...........i just can't get over it
    In light of these facts you leave ASAP!!
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    Sep 2, 2009, 10:47 AM

    Have to spread rep.yes leave NOW.
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