[Alty]

HaaHaa, dont worry i really would not go there i dont want that till im way older.
ThankYou, + he hasnt spoke about it in ages so i think hes over that.

Well that's good news. :)

We're here if you want to talk. Just remember, you're only 14 once, so enjoy it, but not too much. ;)

[HelpinHere]

he said what about BJ??

Yeah, that is asking for it.

I'm just wondering, if you broke up with him because you didn't like him, how is "then i just couldnt be away from him and i knew i couldnt get over him" a reason to take him back?

Yes, you can be away from him. I'm sure of that.
You could get over him. You already were, if you are the one who broke up with him. It is his place to get over you.

Curious, you never did say that you ever started liking him again, so why take him back?

You say that the relationship is dead because you've already huggled him. You say you like your chats. Friends chat. Couples TALK.

+ he hasnt spoke about it in ages so i think hes over that

Just think about it. He brought it up, so you know he thinks about it. The fact that you think about it even now proves that he thinks about it much more. Every guy thinks about it (it's true) but some have more respect and don't try to ask you to do something too early. And that was WAY too early. He's not over it, he's just trying to time it right so when he brings it up again you'll say yes.

It sounds to me like you only took him back because you wanted someone to do something physical with. I understand, everyone needs someone to hold. Why don't you find someone who fits you better, and won't even bring this stuff up until he knows you're ready.
Find someone who respects you more, and someone who you can actually connect with. It will make your life a whole lot easier. Other than that, listen to Alt, she knows what she's talking about. :)

[emzieXxX]

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[DaniDanDan123]

Well everyone, I'm not with this boy now cause he is all in to sex and wants to do it. So I had to do it and break up with him. So I am starting of the new school year fresh and single :) thank you all for the help. But that's it now. But spesh thanks to... Altenweg. You helped me out the most thank you
Dani x

[HelpinHere]

Well, that's good. Everyone said he wasn't good for you. Just glad you learned that before it was too late.

And YAY Alt! :)

[N0help4u]

Good for you!!
The thing is that if you start kissing a guy he often interprets that as you want more and he will take it as far as he can. You have to make sure you tell him upfront that your limit is__________ and stick to it.
Like NOTHING that requires undoing jeans or below the waist.
At 15 you don't want to start getting too carried away and end up with the wrong reputation.
Stick to your virtues and integrity they are way worth more than compromising to TRY and keep any guy.

[HelpinHere]

Also, I'd like to say thank you for coming back to update. Too many leave us wondering "did she go and do something stupid?"

:)

[Alty]

well everyone, im not with this boy now cause he is all in to sex and wants to do it. So i had to do it and break up with him. So i am starting of the new school year fresh and single :) thankyou all for the help. But thats it now. but spesh thanks to ... Altenweg. You helped me out the most thankyou
Dani x

Made me blush. :o

No problem Dani, I'm glad that you decided to move on. :)

[DaniDanDan123]

Thank you to youu all for the support.
:)
Dani.
And many thanks to you HelpinHere :)
Altenweg, your awesome :)

[bubbletea123]

Hey, I know your problem has been resolved, and congrats to you! I'm glad you made the right decision, but don't think that all guys are just into sex! I'm 19, and my boyfriend and I have been together since we were both 13, and we still haven't had sex yet (neither of us are religious, so it's not that). What kept us together was finding things we enjoyed doing together. We still find time for it, even through our university workload. A relationship definitely doesn't have to be sexual, especially when you're a teen (yes I'm still one, since I'm nineTEEN). What's between a kiss and sex? So so much! Anyway, enjoy your new school year, and good luck! (:

[N0help4u]

Its refreshing to see kids with values and integrity

[Alty]

Its refreshing to see kids with values and integrity

It really is.

Every time someone posts here I cringe, expecting the worst.

It's nice to see a post by a teen that offers good advice.

Bravo.

Makes me proud. :)

[HelpinHere]

:eek: GASP :eek:

You cringe at my posts, Alt? You make me feel so un-loved... :(

*cries in the corner*

[Alty]

:eek: GASP :eek:

You cringe at my posts, Alt? You make me feel so un-loved... :(

*cries in the corner*

You're another good teen.

Silly boy. ;)