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    #21

    Jul 30, 2009, 06:29 AM

    Don't over think the conversation. Go up to her with NO expectations. Talk with her and look at her as a possible friend instead of a possible GF.

    Be confident.

    That's about it. Let your fear and anxiety work for you, not against you.
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    #22

    Jul 30, 2009, 06:30 AM
    That was the most eye catching title ever. Please tell me it's for a book and tell me where I can go buy it. /drool. I'd be shy too if I saw a chick described like that. And I am a GIRL. Hahahaha
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    #23

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:37 AM

    Clearly, you've never seen "The Sandlot".

    Pay close attention to Squints in that film, it'll show you what you need to do.
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    #24

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:52 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Broken2001 View Post
    what should I do what's your advice?
    Hello B:

    Jump in the water and start floundering around. The two of you will meet in the center of the pool. It's going to be romantic, too because she's going to hug you right off the bat.

    excon
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    #25

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:10 PM
    What kind of Candy should I buy a 19 year old female?
    What kind of Candy should I buy a 19 year old female? I bought this person bags of Candy did I make a mistake? Please answer ASAP
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    #26

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:11 PM

    What kind of candy did you buy?

    Why did you buy her candy?

    Does she like candy?

    What's her favorite candy?
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    #27

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:11 PM

    Why bags of candy? That's pretty odd! How old are you?
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    #28

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    What kind of candy did you buy?

    Why did you buy her candy?

    Does she like candy?

    What's her favorite candy?
    Skittles wild berry, some Regular Skittles,reese's pieces. That's what I purchased for this person did I make a mistake?
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    #29

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:17 PM

    Why did you buy the candy! I'm sure she will like it! Just not romantic.. if that is what you were looking for!
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    #30

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by danielnoahsmommy View Post
    why bags of candy? thats pretty odd! how old are you?
    I'm 19 and she is 19 let me guess I made a mistake?
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    #31

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:21 PM

    Well if you are buddies and they wre hungry, fine

    If they are a girl you like and you wanted to impress them, Not unless you are 12
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    #32

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by danielnoahsmommy View Post
    why did you buy the candy! I'm sure she will like it! just not romantic..if that is what you were looking for!
    oh thanks I feel worse than before. Just great
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    #33

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:22 PM

    So it wa supposed to be romantic? No not a mistake. She will take it as a sweet gesture! Never a mistake, you just may not get the reaction you are looking for. Add some flowers, don't have to buy you can pick your own! That would be very nice. You can put the candy in a nice gift bag!
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    #34

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by danielnoahsmommy View Post
    so it wa supposed to be romantic? No not a mistake. she will take it as a sweet gesture! never a mistake, you just may not get the reaction you are looking for. add some flowers, don't have to buy you can pick your own! that would be very nice. you can put the candy in a nice gift bag!
    yes it was but in your opinion did I make a mistake?
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    #35

    Jul 30, 2009, 07:30 PM

    Yep!
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    #36

    Jul 30, 2009, 08:20 PM

    Well, I thin it as nice sweet detail, mostly if she told that is her favorite andy or something like that. Candy with a little letter or card would aheve ake itbeter, honestly if the guy I like gave me my favorite candy just because I would really like the gesture.
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    #37

    Jul 30, 2009, 08:27 PM

    Well you can probably fix the mistake if it was suppose to be romantic and she likes you back buy a basket and a stuffed animal and fill the basket. Take the candy out of the bags and put them around the stuffed animal.
    If she is your girlfriend buy those valentine heart candies with the sayings. Maybe even include some scented voitive candles.
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    #38

    Jul 30, 2009, 09:24 PM

    You can't just go to the grocery and pick something up from the aisle. Try something like a giant swirly lollipop or gumballs, maybe get her foreign candy like that aerowaves or asian ginger gum(I assume they have that)
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    #39

    Jul 30, 2009, 09:32 PM

    Romantic? No. Sweet? Yes.

    You know her better then we do. Will she like it?

    Is she materialistic? Does she expect guys to spend a lot of money on her?

    Personally, to me, it's the thought that counts.

    But it's really not romantic.

    Send me the candy, buy her a stuffed bear.

    Fixed. :)
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    #40

    Jul 31, 2009, 05:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Broken2001 View Post
    I'm shy when it comes to introducing myself to the female hot Russian lifeguard what should I do what's your advice?
    Uhhh... who's "the" hot Russian lifeguard?

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