[DARIA]

My Boyfriend Says That He Loves Me, At First We Use To Go Out A lot And Have Fun, He Use To Call Me Everday. But Now He Has Really Changed He Always Is Very Busy, But He Still Claims He Really Loves Me And Doesn't Want To Let Me Go. And Now I Am Hearing From One Of His Male Friends That He Has A Picture Of Another Female On A Keychain Clinged To His Cell Phone. I Just Want To Know If It Means That He Loves Her More Than Me?

[Depressed in MO]

My Boyfriend Says That He Loves Me, At First We Use To Go Out Alot And Have Fun, He Use To Call Me Everday. But Now He Has Really Changed He Always Is Very Busy, But He Still Claims He Really Loves Me And Doesnt Want To Let Me Go. And Now I Am Hearing From One Of His Male Friends That He Has A Picture Of Another Female On A Keychain Clinged To His Cell Phone. I Just Want To Know If It Means That He Loves Her More Than Me?

Are you serious?? Find out for sure if he has a picture of another female on his keychain-ask him who it is, and unless it is a sister, mother, long lost cousin-get rid of him. It should be YOU on his keychain. Sounds like he does have someone else on the side.

[bleimberger]

This is ridiculous... you two are boyfriend and girlfriend... right? If you two are dating you need to kick him to the curb IF he does have a picture of a girl on a keychain from his phone.

[J_9]

Daria,

First, would you mind not using caps? Thanks

Second, have you asked him about this? You are going on the assumption of one of his friends. Could be him or his friend wants to see what kind of reaction they get from you.

These are games sometimes that people play.

If indeed he does have a pic of another girl, that is not a relative, I agree, get rid of him.

But first, ask him.

[s_cianci]

I don't know what it means. But I do know that you've got to become just as busy as he is. Get involved in activities that interest you and don't make him the center of your world. Be aloof when it comes to him. This will actually make you more attractive to him. Remember, a lonely person is often a bored person.

[valinors_sorrow]

Depressed and J_9 , that was a bullseye and I agree.

How about a little verification first?
If that's not possible, how about a little communication next?

Both seem very possible for any girlfriend-boyfriend deal...

[talaniman]

Never sit on the sidelines and accept what others say as they have their own agenda. Always find things out for yourself and make sure you got the fact straight. Then you can figure out the right action to take. Wonder what he says about all this?