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genesisz · Jul 21, 2009, 01:42 PM

Me and my boyfriend are really close I am in love with him very much . We both believe in god and we both excepted jesus into are lives.we are in lots of activities with are churches.but me and him had sex . I know it's a sin. But do you think I will go to hell.

mudweiser · Jul 21, 2009, 01:45 PM

Personally I don't think you will go to hell.

Religiously speaking if you continue this you will. So why not stop, ask for forgiveness- after all God is a forgiving God.

Sarah

mudweiser · Jul 21, 2009, 01:49 PM

I would also like to add. If you are going to be having sex in the future PLEASE use contraception and PLEASE understand the responsibility that comes with having sex!

Not only is pregnancy a consequence but so are STD's, HIV/AIDS and even the risk of having your parents find out.

If you are not prepared to handle these things my suggestion is to stop, whether it's because you believe it's a sin or because of religion but also because you are unprepared if pregnancy does happen!

Just imagine if your parents would find out; what would you say? Would tell no longer allow you to see your boyfriend?

I bet you'd lose plenty of privileges and they would no longer trust you--- is sex worth that?

Sarah

prttynpnk1105 · Jul 21, 2009, 05:43 PM

I don't believe something like having sex before you are married will determine if you go to hell or not, not saying that it is the right thing to do. Ask for forgivness and do better in the future.*God Bless*

Fr_Chuck · Jul 21, 2009, 05:47 PM

It will not send you to hell, but it leads to more sins, lying to your parents, sneaking around.

Also were you on birth control, if not are you ready to be a mommy?

Living and having sin in our life does hurt our relationship with Jesus.

HelpinHere · Jul 21, 2009, 10:01 PM

I do not believe it to be a sin...
In fact, I do not see anything wrong with, under certain circumstances.

However, I'll have to agree with everyone else, unless you are ready to be a parent, and you are not, you shouldn't be having sex.

You should talk to your parents. Not necessarily tell them you are sexually active (if they don't know already), but to inform them that you have taken an interest in boys, have a boyfriend, introduce them, whatever you feel comfortable with. They do love you, and you won't help anyone if you block them out.

Alty · Jul 21, 2009, 10:05 PM

If it's against your beliefs, your religion, then yes, it's a sin, but unforegiveable, I don't think so.

iamafrognamedko · Jul 22, 2009, 08:03 AM

No, if you are a loving, caring person who treats people with respect. I really don't think God would mind.

talaniman · Jul 22, 2009, 04:47 PM

If you have sinned, ask your God to forgive you, forgive yourself, and STOP the behavior, that you want to be forgiven for.

N0help4u · Jul 22, 2009, 04:58 PM

I agree with Taliman the Bible DOES talk about sexual immorality and says you should be married but if you pray and you and your boyfriend are strong in committing to waiting until you are married then God sees that you are wanting to wait on his will.
Go to a good church and get strong. The stronger you get in your spirit, the closer you get to God and the more you seek to do right the easier it is to be where you should be in God's will.
I think God says not to get into sexual things before marriage partly because he knows what is best and he knows the hurts people can go through in bad relationships. Also when you end up getting into one sexual relationship after the other it sort of desensitizes your emotions and if you were in bad relationships it can harden your heart
Good things come to those who wait.

angelbaby93 · Jul 25, 2009, 08:16 PM

I honestly don't think you will go to hell if its with one person and you truly love them and you know your going to spend your life with them.. but if you have sex with other guys and not him I think you will go to hell but idt you should really have sex until marriage anyway because anything can happen and I know people have sexual needs and desires but you just have to hold back

Alty · Jul 25, 2009, 08:22 PM

Originally Posted by angelbaby93

I honestly dont think u will go to hell if its with one person and u truly love them and u know ur going to spend ur life with them..but if u have sex with other guys and not him i think u will go to hell but idt u should rly have sex til marriage anyway because anything can happen and i know ppl have sexual needs and desires but u just have to hold back

Please, no text talk, it's against the rules.

It's you, not u.
It's your, not your.
It's people, not people.
It's I don't think, not idt.
It's really, not really.

We have spell check available.

Thank you.

N0help4u · Jul 25, 2009, 08:24 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Please, no text talk, it's against the rules.

It's you, not u.
It's your, not ur.
It's people, not ppl.
It's I don't think, not idt.
It's really, not rly.

We have spell check available.

Thank you.

Have to spread the rep BUT
I think spell check would have a nervous break down with all the txt stuff

Alty · Jul 25, 2009, 08:27 PM

Originally Posted by N0help4u

Have to spread the rep BUT
I think spell check would have a nervous break down with all the txt stuff

My eyes are going to be crossed if this keeps up.

It's not that hard to write the entire word. I get the need for text talk, but on a public site where space isn't an issue and you don't have to pay?

Not acceptable, against the rules and downright annoying.

Okay, I'll stop now. ;)

XM8 · Jul 26, 2009, 06:15 PM

I highly doubt any one of us here is fit enough to judge whether you shall go to hell or not for having had sex - we're not God, now are we?

I can just tell you that God has infinite love, wisdow and power, and is willing to forgive you as long as you acknowledge that you've sinned and will try your best not to repeat that mistake.

After all, God loves you, so my best is guess is that he will forgive you.

Peace be with you,

-Xm8

briannekayleen · Jul 30, 2009, 10:03 AM

Just ask God for forgiveness. I am also one of His children, and I believe totally in his forgiveness. If you truelly are sorry that you did what you did, ask God for forgiveness.

HelpinHere · Jul 30, 2009, 11:14 AM

Originally Posted by briannekayleen

just ask God for forgiveness. i am also one of His children, and i believe totally in his forgiveness. if you truelly are sorry that you did what you did, ask God for forgiveness.

You can't "just ask God for forgiveness", you have to repent. Which means turning away from your sins. If you ask for forgiveness, and continue to follow your own sinful acts, (the way I see it) it's worse than not asking for forgiveness.
It's like saying "God, I'm going to use you. I am going to be a bad person, and get into heaven anyway because you are so stupid you would let me do that."
Not good.

briannekayleen · Jul 30, 2009, 01:53 PM

Originally Posted by HelpinHere

You can't "just ask God for forgiveness", you have to repent. Which means turning away from your sins. If you ask for forgiveness, and continue to follow your own sinful acts, (the way I see it) it's worse than not asking for forgiveness.
It's like saying "God, I'm going to use you. I am going to be a bad person, and get into heaven anyway because you are so stupid you would let me do that."
Not good.

Yah. Sorry. I believe that too. I didn't mean, just ask God for forgiveness. You have to turn from your evil ways.

N0help4u · Jul 30, 2009, 01:55 PM

yeah just praying for forgiveness and continuing in the same thing or keep going back can be and is considered licentiousness which is a sin as well

HrvSavag3r · Jul 31, 2009, 09:05 AM

If you love your boyfriend and if you love god don't pick between the two just yet. Listen to your heart and your head. If you love your boyfriend tell him that you could possibly have sex. But you have to be ready mentally as well. If your not ready for the cons of sex. Don't do it. Be smart but have fun. After all its what god put us on the plannet for.

Tc.