[andrei12345]

My problem is that after 2 months I knew I loved her. The bad thing is that she didn't. And not only that, but the communication wasn't that good and most of the times she didn't feel like seeing me. I know that probably we weren't meant to be together, it is better that we broke up now, but it hurts.and it hurts so bad. But also she told me several times that I need to change, to stop stressing her with phones or stop asking her every time where she is going.I know for a fact that she didn't cheat on me. I don't get it, I'm my opinion she wasn;t very excited sometimes 2 see me, but also she gave me a lot for chances.What should I do in the end, try 2 fight for her love or get over it.ANd if I'll try 2 get over it, gimme some tips please. Cause I feel like she was my soulmate, although we didn't have the best relationship in the world.What should I do?

[jlove09]

, stay away from her. You're going to creep her out esp when she doesn't feel the same way. Stop msging. Move on with your life. Someone else will come by.

[kctiger]

You sound dangerously close to a person who has a problem with codepenency. Leave her alone and focus on yourself. When someone makes it clear that they don't want to be a part of your life, you disappear from theirs... no ifs, ands or buts.

Time to clear your own head.

[I wish]

This isn't even about her. It's about you.

You sound extremely needy. It's fine to have fallen in love someone so soon, but you need to learn to respect other people's space.

Until you fix a few things about your personality, it's better for you to stay away from her.

[jmw0713]

If you can't communicate with someone, then you can't have a relationship with them. Communication is key.

You were so far up her butt that she turned and ran.

You need to take time and be independent for a while. You need to learn how to live your own life by yourself, so you don't go crawling up the butt of the next girl you meet.

Girls don't like needy and codependent guys. They want a man who can stand on his own and trust them when they go places by themselves. They don't want, or need, another father telling them what they can and can't do and questioning everything.

Take time for yourself and let time do it's work.

[jmooney527]

Yea it sounds like it's time to get off the needy bus before you reach Crazytown.

Smothering people turns them off... learn to have a life separate and don't live for the other person.

I recommend being single for a while until you can feel good about yourself... start going out, having fun, join a gym... enjoy life! It's very unattractive to be all over the other person all the time.

Best of luck!

[LiveAndLove0923]

You seem like you really need her but that sad truth is that she just does not feel the same way and although I know that it is hard you are just going to have to deal with the pain. Some ways to help you get over it faster are:
Maybe going to ask out another girl that you like
Hang out with some friends or family to take your mind off it
Get a pet (puppys are good for always having something there to distract you)
Or just realize that that's life and you have to move on no matter how bad it hurts. You'll get through it.

[roxypox]

1. You need to let go of the thought of her.
2. you need to get over her.
3. you need to work some on yourself as a person!

Seriously, like jmw said; with out communication the chance of having a relationship drops to zero.

Also the way you describe your own behavior sounds very disturbing! If I met a guy and he keeps asking me ALL the time where I am and what I'm doing and who I'm seeing I will see that as invasive, disturbing, needy and like I'm not being trusted.


How can you get over her?

1. Let go of her and thoughts of her.
2. start working on you as a person... what do you want out of a relationship? What you want out of yourself as a person. etc.

[talaniman]

My problem is that after 2 months I knew I loved her. The bad thing is that she didn't. And not only that, but the communication wasn't that good and most of the times she didn't feel like seeing me.

Leave her alone, that's what you do.