First, read the AMHD rules... if you can't write w/out chatspeak, don't waste site resources. There's a good chance this thread will be deleted because you aren't willing to use a few more consonants and vowels.
Second, hmm... well... what's upsetting you? That he slept with another woman? That he has a child that he is morally obligated to care for, regardless of the other woman's disposition?
Don't know. Ill never get this question.
I've dated three women who had children out of marriage. It happens. It didn't make the women less attractive.
As for the men... what do you expect to hear? Make it all about her? Fine. He dropped his pants. He got her pregnant. What? You're afraid to deal with this boys past and his reality and his future?
If the child is too much for you to bear, get away from him and let him be the father he needs to be, even if the baby momma isn't right for him.
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